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Re: Weddings globug0822 Send a noteboard - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM
1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)


Yes. Many.

2. Do you like weddings?


No. I hate them more and more as the years roll by. Probably mostly because I can't have one of my own. :P

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)


No.

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)


I haven never been to a wedding I enjoyed. The best part is the crazy letting go dancing that happens toward the end of the night when people are really celebrating- but it's hard to get people to dance and mostly weddings make me feel really really ugly and unwanted. The worst part is where they make you try and catch the bouquet.

It is utterly embarrassing and everyone says you *have to* because it is tradition. I think things should only be done because one wants to and NOTHING should be just because of tradition.

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?


I don;t know. I can't picture it anymore. I used to see things like that so clearly but it stopped feeling real at some point and started feeling like believing in unicorns.

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?


Unique. Fun. Funny. I like things that celebrate the couple and their uniqueness. Personal touches that make it a true celebration of love and not the worship of the false god of weddings.

I can't imagine you having anything but a good time at your wedding. The idea of you doing things for tradition's sake is laughable. You are so unique and special and lovely that I am sure you would never have a boring wedding.

It'll be great.

^_^
~g~

*MySmiley*
CrazedWeasel
"Do not waste time bothering whether you "love" your neighbor; act as if you did...When you are behaving as if you loved someone you will presently come to love him."-- C. S. Lewis
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