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Re: Weddings globug0822 Send a noteboard - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM
1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)


Yes. Many.

2. Do you like weddings?


No. I hate them more and more as the years roll by. Probably mostly because I can't have one of my own. :P

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)


No.

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)


I haven never been to a wedding I enjoyed. The best part is the crazy letting go dancing that happens toward the end of the night when people are really celebrating- but it's hard to get people to dance and mostly weddings make me feel really really ugly and unwanted. The worst part is where they make you try and catch the bouquet.

It is utterly embarrassing and everyone says you *have to* because it is tradition. I think things should only be done because one wants to and NOTHING should be just because of tradition.

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?


I don;t know. I can't picture it anymore. I used to see things like that so clearly but it stopped feeling real at some point and started feeling like believing in unicorns.

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?


Unique. Fun. Funny. I like things that celebrate the couple and their uniqueness. Personal touches that make it a true celebration of love and not the worship of the false god of weddings.

I can't imagine you having anything but a good time at your wedding. The idea of you doing things for tradition's sake is laughable. You are so unique and special and lovely that I am sure you would never have a boring wedding.

It'll be great.

^_^
~g~

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Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1070 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1125 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1079 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 846 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 429 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 821 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 981 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 945 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 876 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 861 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 852 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 408 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 982 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1037 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1128 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 999 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 415 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 413 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 408 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 959 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 992 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 469 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 920 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 928 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 910 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 449 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 972 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 870 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 911 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 930 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 819 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 941 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 954 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 389 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 907 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 946 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 997 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1043 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 935 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 956 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1064 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 940 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 984 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1004 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 899 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 946 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 884 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 909 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 989 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 877 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1038 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 927 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 981 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 918 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 902 Views
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You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 951 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 962 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 888 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 930 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 993 Views
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Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 944 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 931 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 809 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1057 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 987 Views
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