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Re: Weddings globug0822 Send a noteboard - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM
1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)


Yes. Many.

2. Do you like weddings?


No. I hate them more and more as the years roll by. Probably mostly because I can't have one of my own. :P

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)


No.

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)


I haven never been to a wedding I enjoyed. The best part is the crazy letting go dancing that happens toward the end of the night when people are really celebrating- but it's hard to get people to dance and mostly weddings make me feel really really ugly and unwanted. The worst part is where they make you try and catch the bouquet.

It is utterly embarrassing and everyone says you *have to* because it is tradition. I think things should only be done because one wants to and NOTHING should be just because of tradition.

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?


I don;t know. I can't picture it anymore. I used to see things like that so clearly but it stopped feeling real at some point and started feeling like believing in unicorns.

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?


Unique. Fun. Funny. I like things that celebrate the couple and their uniqueness. Personal touches that make it a true celebration of love and not the worship of the false god of weddings.

I can't imagine you having anything but a good time at your wedding. The idea of you doing things for tradition's sake is laughable. You are so unique and special and lovely that I am sure you would never have a boring wedding.

It'll be great.

^_^
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Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1113 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1179 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1132 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 895 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 449 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 875 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 1028 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 990 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 926 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 925 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 900 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 426 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 1036 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1084 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1187 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 1050 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 439 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 433 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 428 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 1009 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1033 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 492 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 967 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 966 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 957 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 469 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 1022 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 921 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 968 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 975 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 868 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 995 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 1009 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 410 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 954 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 1004 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 1039 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1102 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 989 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 1008 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1116 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 993 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 1044 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1055 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 938 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 991 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 931 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 964 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 1039 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 927 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1090 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 976 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 1024 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 969 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 947 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 925 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 1005 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 1016 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 939 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 983 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 1057 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 975 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 990 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 974 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 865 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1113 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1034 Views
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