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Re: Weddings Stephen Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM
So, I've been engaged for over a year now, and we haven't set a wedding date yet.

I like this, as I like being engaged. And planning a wedding sounds like an awful lot of work to me (and probably requires throwing a lot of money at it, too). I'm not really the kind of woman who's been planning her marriage since the age of 4.

I do have a vague sense that I want to throw a really cool party.

So on to the survey:

1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)

Yeah, a few. mainly family
2. Do you like weddings?

They're alright
3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)

Nope, don't intend to for at least ten years.
4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)

One of my uncles who got married when i was ten or eleven. The reception took place in an old castle, and at the dinner a microphone was passed around and i remember grabbing it and talking for a while. it was also one of the first times i got drunk so I don't remember what I said.
5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?

No clue, possibly let the good lady decide.
6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?

Both.
"I mean, if everyone had a soul, there would be no contrast by which we could appreciate it. For giving us this perspective, we thank you." - Nate
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Weddings - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1297 Views
Own answers - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 869 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 917 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 866 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 648 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 332 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 624 Views
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What's JP? - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 752 Views
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Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 650 Views
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But you're marrying Snoopster! - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 813 Views
That's part of the problem! - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 841 Views
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Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 317 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 322 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 311 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 767 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 779 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 374 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 704 Views
Yes, I was. - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 718 Views
Wow - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 713 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 366 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 769 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 694 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 721 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 721 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 622 Views
We just come from different worlds. - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 745 Views
Yes - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 765 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 692 Views
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Gah, weddings. - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 785 Views
Getting hitched - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 810 Views
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that is the catch - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 721 Views
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Probably best not to count the wedding present - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 715 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 785 Views
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ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 772 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 716 Views
Well. - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 716 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 683 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 758 Views
I'd like to elope myself - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 752 Views
I do! - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 651 Views
Re: Weddings - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 740 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 807 Views
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I take it back... there was one. - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 615 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 847 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 796 Views

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