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Getting hitched snoopcester Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM
1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)


Yes

2. Do you like weddings?


They're usually fun

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)


Not yet:P

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)


Hmm. Probably the best one was when a couple of friends got married on one of the Greek islands a few years ago. Because it was out the country they could get away with just inviting people they liked to that and having a reception for everyone back home.
So it worked out as a really fun week long holiday for a group of people who get on well with the wedding in the middle of it in a really pretty setting.

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?


Something similarish:P

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?


Both can be good. I get fustrated with people who get married and don't even have control over who they invite because the bride's parents are control freaks (knew someone who only got to invite 10 friends to his own wedding and another friend now who is trying to juggle invites, including inviting people he knows can't coe so he can get someone else to come at the last minute, as he is only allowed a set number of friends).
It all just seems so stupid when it is their own wedding and it ends up being as much, or more, about making a controlling parent happy.
*MySmiley*

Robert Graves "There is no money in poetry, but then there is no poetry in money, either."

Henning Mankell "We must defend the open society, because if we start locking our doors, if we let fear decide, the person who committed the act of terror will win"
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Bach. CEREMONY!!! - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 968 Views
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Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 350 Views
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But you're marrying Snoopster! - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 861 Views
That's part of the problem! - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 907 Views
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Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 339 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 340 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 336 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 814 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 834 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 396 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 750 Views
Yes, I was. - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 754 Views
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How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 387 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 822 Views
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a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 770 Views
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We just come from different worlds. - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 792 Views
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A very special episode of Love Boat. - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 762 Views
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Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 834 Views
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I take it back... there was one. - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 662 Views
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There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 837 Views

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