Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks
ironclad Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM
beforehand. Long story. He already knew I was going to ask him by then... so I just asked him in the morning after sex.
Does one say: "Will you marry me?" like in the films, or do people rather say: "Do you want to be engaged?". Because if it's the former, then I'd find it awkward not to set a date soon after. And if one of the two comes up with a date, how do things proceed from there? I dunno, sounds odd.
I asked him if he wanted to marry me, I think. I'm not entirely sure. But we haven't set a wedding date yet. First we want to move, so that's already a lot of money, and then we haven't even started saving for the wedding. So I think it'll take a while.
I'd have to say yes, given it's thrown by the right people.
What's the worst wedding you've been to?
It wasn't awful, I like my family, but my cousin's was just not how I'd want it for myself. First of all: mostly family, hardly friends. I'd have it vice versa. And then he had this elderly guy behind a keyboard playing awfully lame songs and "singing" accordingly. No way. At least the weather was nice.
My friend Werner and his wife rented this castle / youth hostel for all of us from Friday through Sunday, so the whole circle of friends spent three days in a beautiful castle, celebrating, drinking, laughing. Not only was it the best wedding I ever been to, hands down, it was probably also the best party. Which is just like it's supposed to be.
That sounds lovely and extremely expensive!
Certainly. That's why we agreed on everyone paying their own rooms. So worth it.
I find a lot depends on the location. If it's a cool one and the weather plays along, not much can go wrong. Also: no traditional dance music for the old people. My wedding, my music. This is my day, not my grandma's. I like the thought of a white, open tent on a beautiful green lawn, whenever I think about a wedding. Problem is, I don't think I am cut out for the mere idea of getting married.
That sounds lovely as well. Although more daring, in case the weather turns nasty. As for whether or not you're cut out for marriage... I am a firm believer that not everyone is cut out for life long commitments. But who knows, may be you'll surprise yourself one day.
That's why I never get how some people can get married in November or February. If it rained on my wedding day, I'd rather die
But yeah, you never know...
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You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.
You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.
Weddings
04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM
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Bach. CEREMONY!!!
04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM
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The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception?
04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM
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ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually
04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM
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Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM*
05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM
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Re: Weddings
04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM
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What's JP?
04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM
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The smart way to get married
04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM
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Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast
04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM
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there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state
04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM
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Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM*
05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM
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Re: Weddings
04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM
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But you're marrying Snoopster!
04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM
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That's part of the problem!
04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM
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04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM
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Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM*
04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM
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If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM*
04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM
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How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM*
05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM
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That entirely depends on how you define family.
05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM
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In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter.
05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM
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Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM*
05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM
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I've always wondered about how that works...
04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM
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I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks
04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM
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Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks
04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM
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Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks
05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM
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well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens.
04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM
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Getting hitched
04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM
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Re: Getting hitched
04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM
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that is the catch
04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM
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Re: that is the catch
05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM
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Well.
04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM
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There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now.
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