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But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM
Depends on the wedding. I prefer small and fun.


What's wrong with large and fun?

I am planning one currently, and it's a pain. I already have to "uninvite" people who just assume they get to go.


God that sounds horrible. Having to uninvite people... Why are they assuming they can just show up? How are you letting them know?

My cousin's in Wisconsin - it was family oriented and outside in the summer. Small and fun. It was almost more of a formal picnic feel than a wedding.


Family oriented means that it was mostly family, or that it was for people of all ages?

I really don't want drama. We're talking no more than 25 people, a pretty dress, a couple flowers and a notary public. And I want to take people out to a nice place to eat/drink afterwards - it should work because it will be only people I actually like.


That sounds nice. And not having to entertain tedious people will probably greatly increase your enjoyment of the event as well. Although I get the impression that lots of weddings are barely fun for the people actually getting married.
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1328 Views
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Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 949 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 897 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 676 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 344 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 652 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 833 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 782 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 704 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 689 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 684 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 327 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 801 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 842 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 871 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 831 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 332 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 333 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 326 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 796 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 810 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 389 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 730 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 733 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 742 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 379 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 799 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 717 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 751 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 757 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 653 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 769 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 796 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 321 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 719 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 771 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 832 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 867 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 783 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 759 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 863 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 756 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 816 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 842 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 725 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 751 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 711 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 746 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 817 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 699 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 856 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 770 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 800 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 741 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 747 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 709 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 783 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 783 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 677 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 768 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 814 Views
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Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 761 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 773 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 643 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 882 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 819 Views
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