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Sometimes I worry about "this community"... Joel Send a noteboard - 25/03/2011 11:33:17 PM
particularly when people are accused of being so pathetic they'll make up SOs just to prove a point or make themselves look better to said community. I like you, Aisha, but having been on the other end of it I still think suggestions like that say a lot more about the person (or people, as the case may be) making them than about the person accused. :[
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