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being offensive makes it no less true random thoughts Send a noteboard - 24/03/2011 01:25:34 PM
There is a reason the saying has been around as long as it has. With so many girls giving it away there are a lot fewer men interested in being in relationships. I could have used the market economy analogy but I am not sure it is less offensive. I know I work with several single men in the thirties and forties and most of them have little to no interest in dating women their own age or being in a serious relationship. Why should they? They are not exceptionable attractive or rich, their personalities are not all that great but still they have almost no problem hooking up whenever they feel need. My wife has single girlfriends who can’t find a guy interested in anything but having a good time.

Being compared to a cow may not be that complementary but sometimes abrasive makes the point better.
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Interracial dating (in the dating dilemma series) - 23/03/2011 11:11:14 AM 2111 Views
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Re: - 23/03/2011 11:38:31 AM 1106 Views
Independence Day reference? Good man. *NM* - 23/03/2011 08:28:35 PM 543 Views
john lennon... - 24/03/2011 01:08:20 PM 1105 Views
I dated a black girl for nearly 3 years. - 23/03/2011 12:29:26 PM 1127 Views
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LMAO Jens, you know me too well - 23/03/2011 11:30:35 PM 1025 Views
And her mother is Muslim. - 24/03/2011 11:48:24 AM 1052 Views
What's it called? *NM* - 24/03/2011 10:36:28 PM 552 Views
please give him a moment to google an answer. *NM* - 25/03/2011 11:04:02 AM 557 Views
She said it's called Abu Haifa (sp?) - 25/03/2011 10:38:13 PM 1060 Views
Hm, okay. - 26/03/2011 12:16:02 AM 1181 Views
That was it, Abu Hanifa. I'm poor with Arabic. - 26/03/2011 01:08:12 AM 1105 Views
amazingly enough, I dont believe you. - 23/03/2011 11:32:26 PM 1159 Views
I'd prove it to you. - 24/03/2011 11:47:33 AM 1020 Views
God help me, I'm agreeing with Dragonsoul. - 24/03/2011 09:29:56 PM 1029 Views
I think he is making it up for the benefit of this comunity - 24/03/2011 10:03:21 PM 1133 Views
Sometimes I worry about "this community"... - 25/03/2011 11:33:17 PM 1222 Views
I think that would be a poor reason to not date someone - 23/03/2011 01:07:31 PM 1136 Views
I didn't even see the "cow & milk" analogy. - 24/03/2011 04:03:02 AM 1003 Views
being offensive makes it no less true - 24/03/2011 01:25:34 PM 1012 Views
It's true that after a certain age, average men have an easier time finding dates - 24/03/2011 01:31:35 PM 983 Views
I don't date so I don't have personal experience - 24/03/2011 03:29:50 PM 998 Views
I don't date either... :-) - 24/03/2011 03:42:33 PM 1209 Views
I think you're doing him a disservice. - 23/03/2011 02:16:59 PM 1103 Views
This. Plus, to try to frame it more in A's terms... - 23/03/2011 03:05:55 PM 1032 Views
It can add extra complications that negatively impact the likelihood of a successful relationship - 23/03/2011 02:50:39 PM 1038 Views
What I forgot to mention in the post - 23/03/2011 03:01:04 PM 1001 Views
Re: What I forgot to mention in the post - 24/03/2011 05:11:11 AM 1065 Views
I think you should date him. - 23/03/2011 03:02:56 PM 988 Views
I think you should date this guy if you like him. - 23/03/2011 03:07:30 PM 989 Views
I think that you're doing both of you a disservice. - 23/03/2011 03:09:29 PM 1045 Views
I agree with you. - 23/03/2011 03:26:02 PM 1048 Views
Well, you know your sis better than we do... - 23/03/2011 03:48:12 PM 1016 Views
Because you never know. - 23/03/2011 04:00:44 PM 1182 Views
Geez you know just the right things to say. - 24/03/2011 03:38:34 AM 1038 Views
LOL. ( Yes I really did laugh out loud) *NM* - 24/03/2011 03:55:22 AM 534 Views
Most of the other responses are ignoring your reasons. - 23/03/2011 03:34:56 PM 966 Views
No one should try to think from "the perspective of black women", not even 1 black woman can do that - 23/03/2011 03:47:34 PM 1011 Views
Re - 23/03/2011 04:05:20 PM 1138 Views
Or - 23/03/2011 03:47:56 PM 1011 Views
We have no control over how other people act. - 23/03/2011 04:07:11 PM 1141 Views
I agree completely. - 23/03/2011 04:17:59 PM 1096 Views
This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. - 23/03/2011 03:54:15 PM 1047 Views
Your opinion: less than nothing. - 23/03/2011 04:10:24 PM 1129 Views
Who are you? - 23/03/2011 08:37:43 PM 1168 Views
It's extremely unlikely that Tom was offended. - 23/03/2011 09:04:42 PM 1046 Views
I'm glad you're back, by the way. These threads are great. *NM* - 23/03/2011 09:15:41 PM 550 Views
Thank you. *NM* - 24/03/2011 04:01:08 AM 554 Views
I'm not offended, only amused at your poor logic. - 23/03/2011 09:24:05 PM 1082 Views
That's lawyer logic! - 24/03/2011 03:50:37 AM 1011 Views
Is there any other kind? *NM* - 24/03/2011 02:05:27 PM 551 Views
Ooh that's harsh. - 24/03/2011 03:48:50 AM 973 Views
This is all I get???? - 24/03/2011 03:54:22 AM 1077 Views
Oh, I appreciate. There's cake in the fridge *NM* - 24/03/2011 04:27:20 AM 516 Views
You two are sooo cute! *NM* - 24/03/2011 07:29:12 PM 418 Views
Yup. - 24/03/2011 01:42:16 AM 1110 Views
That's a good analogy. - 24/03/2011 03:50:17 AM 1101 Views
Shrug. She likes *me*. Plus, Jewish guys love Asian girls, well-known fact. - 24/03/2011 04:46:56 AM 1006 Views
What's wrong with wanting to preserve races or ethnic groups? - 24/03/2011 02:09:02 AM 1072 Views
When its the black race? *NM* - 24/03/2011 02:21:13 AM 552 Views
You're such an ass *NM* - 24/03/2011 02:52:12 AM 526 Views
*butts in* - 24/03/2011 02:45:26 AM 1069 Views
"It would be wrong, immortal [sic] even". - 24/03/2011 02:52:21 AM 1100 Views
Or potentially not (directly) from Africa - 24/03/2011 03:06:36 AM 958 Views
I've only seen "identifies as" when someone is of mixed race. *NM* - 24/03/2011 03:09:51 AM 508 Views
You're absolutely right. - 24/03/2011 04:14:49 AM 1039 Views
Then your argument is even sillier, as mixed race is too white - 24/03/2011 09:50:15 AM 923 Views
Is he "identifying as" black in a cultural context as well? - 24/03/2011 02:04:43 PM 903 Views
Re: *butts in* - 24/03/2011 03:03:14 AM 962 Views
You're a damn genius! - 24/03/2011 03:09:26 AM 1061 Views
I don't feel like one - 25/03/2011 01:17:07 AM 1029 Views
Re: This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. - 24/03/2011 04:07:36 AM 1059 Views
That could be argued in the opposite way just as easily. - 24/03/2011 09:48:16 AM 993 Views
Huh - 25/03/2011 11:15:58 AM 1009 Views
Are you looking for reasons not to date him, or are you just being overly socially conscience? - 23/03/2011 08:12:48 PM 1032 Views
Ha. - 24/03/2011 04:17:26 AM 1017 Views
Heh, that really is the best thing *NM* - 24/03/2011 04:48:07 AM 550 Views
...wat. Is this a serious post? - 23/03/2011 08:23:04 PM 1016 Views
Kinda? - 24/03/2011 04:23:12 AM 1077 Views
I just broke up with my Pakistani girlfriend - 23/03/2011 08:24:52 PM 982 Views
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Ha, I didn't even see that typo. - 24/03/2011 05:14:40 AM 913 Views
<3 You Ana, BUT - 23/03/2011 08:44:11 PM 1012 Views
wait. did you..? - 24/03/2011 04:37:23 AM 1031 Views
Your taken aback by this why? - 24/03/2011 06:30:46 AM 1080 Views
I thought this was a great post. - 23/03/2011 10:26:08 PM 1062 Views
Glad I could entertain. *NM* - 24/03/2011 03:47:48 AM 490 Views
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An ally! Score! - 24/03/2011 03:56:53 AM 984 Views
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Also somebody brought up the valid point of his rights. - 26/03/2011 11:55:49 PM 1020 Views
he is not a resource, he is a man. *NM* - 23/03/2011 11:29:37 PM 599 Views
Cock is a resource. *NM* - 23/03/2011 11:43:39 PM 509 Views
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I didn't quite. I was talking about the economic principle. *NM* - 24/03/2011 04:42:57 AM 519 Views
<--Black Guy Post - 24/03/2011 12:57:13 AM 1150 Views
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Um. - 24/03/2011 01:00:47 AM 1166 Views
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Practical advice. I like it. - 24/03/2011 03:58:24 AM 1077 Views
Practical advice! *NM* - 24/03/2011 03:58:34 AM 515 Views
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1/6 of a minute. But it's still a comical coincidence. *NM* - 24/03/2011 09:52:19 PM 528 Views
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What just happened? *NM* - 24/03/2011 04:04:45 AM 500 Views
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Awesome *NM* - 24/03/2011 09:03:13 AM 618 Views
I am currently dating a black woman... - 24/03/2011 06:29:03 AM 1020 Views
...I always figured your name was a Snow Crash reference *NM* - 24/03/2011 03:48:53 PM 534 Views
I have had the nickname longer than that has been out. *NM* - 24/03/2011 07:08:02 PM 552 Views
Don't date him. - 24/03/2011 09:44:30 AM 1019 Views
Its not likely anyone will read this comment since there are so many already - 24/03/2011 01:12:19 PM 1131 Views
She's not talking about welfare queens, she's talking about well educated black women - 24/03/2011 01:33:48 PM 1077 Views
It is. *NM* - 24/03/2011 09:33:01 PM 504 Views
this might help you understand what she is talking about - 25/03/2011 02:24:35 PM 1038 Views

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