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wait. did you..? Aeryn Send a noteboard - 24/03/2011 04:37:23 AM
That is... very sweet. Like, thoughtful and considerate. I'm rather taken aback.

The sort of altruism your argument is premised on is deeply flawed.

You would be so much more beautiful if you would use that sort of thinking to live your life from a perspective of enlightened self interest.

By thinking in this manner you do the man a great dis-service. You do yourself a great dis-service also.
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Interracial dating (in the dating dilemma series) Aeryn - 23/03/2011 11:11:14 AM 2179 Views
I am not a black woman and I haven't done it ironclad - 23/03/2011 11:24:16 AM 1135 Views
Re: Aeryn - 23/03/2011 11:38:31 AM 1170 Views
Independence Day reference? Good man. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:28:35 PM 565 Views
john lennon... MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:08:20 PM 1170 Views
If you limit your dating pool by race you really have no reason to complain Camilla - 23/03/2011 11:57:48 AM 1091 Views
I dated a black girl for nearly 3 years. Dragonsoul - 23/03/2011 12:29:26 PM 1205 Views
ironclad - 23/03/2011 12:57:08 PM 1202 Views
LMAO Jens, you know me too well Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:30:35 PM 1087 Views
And her mother is Muslim. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:48:24 AM 1114 Views
What's it called? *NM* Legolas - 24/03/2011 10:36:28 PM 574 Views
please give him a moment to google an answer. *NM* Aisha - 25/03/2011 11:04:02 AM 580 Views
She said it's called Abu Haifa (sp?) Dragonsoul - 25/03/2011 10:38:13 PM 1091 Views
Hm, okay. Legolas - 26/03/2011 12:16:02 AM 1239 Views
That was it, Abu Hanifa. I'm poor with Arabic. Dragonsoul - 26/03/2011 01:08:12 AM 1165 Views
amazingly enough, I dont believe you. Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:32:26 PM 1216 Views
I'd prove it to you. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:47:33 AM 1079 Views
God help me, I'm agreeing with Dragonsoul. Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:29:56 PM 1076 Views
I think he is making it up for the benefit of this comunity Aisha - 24/03/2011 10:03:21 PM 1190 Views
Sometimes I worry about "this community"... Joel - 25/03/2011 11:33:17 PM 1289 Views
I think that would be a poor reason to not date someone random thoughts - 23/03/2011 01:07:31 PM 1201 Views
Can you edit your post and take out the cow analogies? Thanks. *NM* Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:31:51 PM 579 Views
I didn't even see the "cow & milk" analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:03:02 AM 1061 Views
being offensive makes it no less true random thoughts - 24/03/2011 01:25:34 PM 1072 Views
It's true that after a certain age, average men have an easier time finding dates Helene - 24/03/2011 01:31:35 PM 1040 Views
I don't date so I don't have personal experience random thoughts - 24/03/2011 03:29:50 PM 1058 Views
I don't date either... :-) Helene - 24/03/2011 03:42:33 PM 1277 Views
I think you're doing him a disservice. nossy - 23/03/2011 02:16:59 PM 1167 Views
This. Plus, to try to frame it more in A's terms... Sareitha Sedai - 23/03/2011 03:05:55 PM 1091 Views
It can add extra complications that negatively impact the likelihood of a successful relationship Helene - 23/03/2011 02:50:39 PM 1106 Views
What I forgot to mention in the post Helene - 23/03/2011 03:01:04 PM 1065 Views
Re: What I forgot to mention in the post Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:11:11 AM 1120 Views
If you have a lot in common with him and like him and are attracted to him Helene - 24/03/2011 09:41:01 AM 1014 Views
I think you should date him. Palatine - 23/03/2011 03:02:56 PM 1025 Views
I think you should date this guy if you like him. Morgawse - 23/03/2011 03:07:30 PM 1066 Views
I think that you're doing both of you a disservice. Jeordam - 23/03/2011 03:09:29 PM 1102 Views
I agree with you. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:26:02 PM 1110 Views
And my opinion matters more than everyone else here combined! MWAHAHAHAHAHA Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:28:06 PM 1048 Views
Well, you know your sis better than we do... ironclad - 23/03/2011 03:48:12 PM 1079 Views
Because you never know. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:00:44 PM 1229 Views
Geez you know just the right things to say. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:38:34 AM 1097 Views
LOL. ( Yes I really did laugh out loud) *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:55:22 AM 562 Views
Most of the other responses are ignoring your reasons. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:34:56 PM 1033 Views
No one should try to think from "the perspective of black women", not even 1 black woman can do that Helene - 23/03/2011 03:47:34 PM 1086 Views
Re Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:05:20 PM 1199 Views
I'm sure that Aeryn is lovely, but she's not the only lovely white woman in the world Helene - 24/03/2011 09:43:32 AM 1081 Views
Or nossy - 23/03/2011 03:47:56 PM 1069 Views
We have no control over how other people act. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:07:11 PM 1197 Views
I agree completely. nossy - 23/03/2011 04:17:59 PM 1155 Views
And it's a bit silly to determine for someone else who he should be dating *NM* Helene - 24/03/2011 09:33:09 AM 534 Views
This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Tom - 23/03/2011 03:54:15 PM 1078 Views
Your opinion: less than nothing. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:10:24 PM 1184 Views
Who are you? Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:37:43 PM 1216 Views
It's extremely unlikely that Tom was offended. Vivien - 23/03/2011 09:04:42 PM 1099 Views
I'm glad you're back, by the way. These threads are great. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 09:15:41 PM 572 Views
Thank you. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:01:08 AM 573 Views
I'm not offended, only amused at your poor logic. Tom - 23/03/2011 09:24:05 PM 1135 Views
That's lawyer logic! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:50:37 AM 1070 Views
Is there any other kind? *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 02:05:27 PM 570 Views
Ooh that's harsh. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:48:50 AM 1028 Views
This is all I get???? Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:54:22 AM 1134 Views
Oh, I appreciate. There's cake in the fridge *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:27:20 AM 540 Views
You two are sooo cute! *NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 07:29:12 PM 443 Views
+1, though I probably wouldn't have said it in quite the same way. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:03:07 PM 1066 Views
Yup. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 01:42:16 AM 1161 Views
That's a good analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:50:17 AM 1156 Views
Shrug. She likes *me*. Plus, Jewish guys love Asian girls, well-known fact. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:46:56 AM 1067 Views
So it's not her choice who she wants to date, but everyone around her?? Helene - 24/03/2011 09:39:58 AM 1079 Views
What's wrong with wanting to preserve races or ethnic groups? ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:09:02 AM 1128 Views
When its the black race? *NM* Urza - 24/03/2011 02:21:13 AM 570 Views
You're such an ass *NM* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:52:12 AM 550 Views
*butts in* nossy - 24/03/2011 02:45:26 AM 1129 Views
"It would be wrong, immortal [sic] even". Tom - 24/03/2011 02:52:21 AM 1159 Views
Or potentially not (directly) from Africa nossy - 24/03/2011 03:06:36 AM 1010 Views
I've only seen "identifies as" when someone is of mixed race. *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 03:09:51 AM 533 Views
You're absolutely right. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:14:49 AM 1105 Views
Then your argument is even sillier, as mixed race is too white Helene - 24/03/2011 09:50:15 AM 982 Views
Is he "identifying as" black in a cultural context as well? Tom - 24/03/2011 02:04:43 PM 963 Views
Re: *butts in* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 03:03:14 AM 1012 Views
You're a damn genius! nossy - 24/03/2011 03:09:26 AM 1120 Views
I don't feel like one ßelals Girl - 25/03/2011 01:17:07 AM 1077 Views
Re: This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:07:36 AM 1116 Views
That could be argued in the opposite way just as easily. Helene - 24/03/2011 09:48:16 AM 1051 Views
Huh Aeryn - 25/03/2011 11:15:58 AM 1077 Views
Are you looking for reasons not to date him, or are you just being overly socially conscience? Beqi - 23/03/2011 08:12:48 PM 1078 Views
Ha. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:17:26 AM 1081 Views
Heh, that really is the best thing *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:48:07 AM 570 Views
...wat. Is this a serious post? Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:23:04 PM 1078 Views
Kinda? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:23:12 AM 1130 Views
I just broke up with my Pakistani girlfriend Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:24:52 PM 1036 Views
Heh heh heh heh snoopcester - 23/03/2011 08:25:06 PM 933 Views
Ha, I didn't even see that typo. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:14:40 AM 961 Views
<3 You Ana, BUT Urza - 23/03/2011 08:44:11 PM 1069 Views
wait. did you..? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:37:23 AM 1089 Views
Your taken aback by this why? Urza - 24/03/2011 06:30:46 AM 1147 Views
I thought this was a great post. Legolas - 23/03/2011 10:26:08 PM 1120 Views
Glad I could entertain. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:47:48 AM 512 Views
I understand what you are saying. Tashmere - 23/03/2011 11:04:44 PM 1064 Views
An ally! Score! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:56:53 AM 1034 Views
Aw, you're a darling. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:26:39 AM 1098 Views
Also somebody brought up the valid point of his rights. Tashmere - 26/03/2011 11:55:49 PM 1082 Views
There's not a wealth of eligible men from any race; maybe you should just stop dating entirely. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:27:40 PM 1020 Views
Well, yeah. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:49:47 AM 928 Views
The critically large word is "if"; your reasoning is setting off massive circular claxons for me. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:30:15 PM 889 Views
he is not a resource, he is a man. *NM* Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:29:37 PM 624 Views
Cock is a resource. *NM* Urza - 23/03/2011 11:43:39 PM 538 Views
"Efficient allocation of cock?" Oh my, that sounds really wrong. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:32:23 AM 559 Views
seriously? that is dumb. date the man. also, it is dehumanising to refer to him as a resource. temeraire - 24/03/2011 12:52:38 AM 1119 Views
This is exactly it. Dan - 24/03/2011 04:02:10 AM 1125 Views
I didn't quite. I was talking about the economic principle. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:42:57 AM 540 Views
<--Black Guy Post Daiyon - 24/03/2011 12:57:13 AM 1213 Views
Re: Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:53:07 AM 1115 Views
Um. rebelaessedai - 24/03/2011 01:00:47 AM 1224 Views
Well, according to stand-up comics who specialize in racially based humor... TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 01:29:35 AM 1111 Views
Practical advice. I like it. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:58:24 AM 1136 Views
Practical advice! *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:58:34 AM 533 Views
... how did you? *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:31:14 AM 571 Views
I don't know! Our posts are about 1/10 of a second apart, freaky. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:35:23 AM 536 Views
1/6 of a minute. But it's still a comical coincidence. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 09:52:19 PM 549 Views
But that means if he's OK with it he's a commodity more rare and valuable than gold. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:37:48 PM 1013 Views
I present to you: A VISION OF THE FUTURE-UTRE-UTRE-UTRE beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 02:19:19 AM 1214 Views
Oh, that was awesome *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:37:01 AM 573 Views
+ 10 best post ever. I can't believe how funny that was. *NM* Timthetrolloc - 24/03/2011 03:54:39 AM 599 Views
What just happened? *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 04:04:45 AM 528 Views
*NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 08:32:36 AM 460 Views
Awesome *NM* Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:03:13 AM 641 Views
I am currently dating a black woman... MightyYT - 24/03/2011 06:29:03 AM 1076 Views
...I always figured your name was a Snow Crash reference *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 03:48:53 PM 558 Views
I have had the nickname longer than that has been out. *NM* MightyYT - 24/03/2011 07:08:02 PM 579 Views
Don't date him. Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:44:30 AM 1077 Views
Its not likely anyone will read this comment since there are so many already MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:12:19 PM 1189 Views
She's not talking about welfare queens, she's talking about well educated black women Helene - 24/03/2011 01:33:48 PM 1141 Views
It is. *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:33:01 PM 525 Views
this might help you understand what she is talking about random thoughts - 25/03/2011 02:24:35 PM 1100 Views
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