Online site involvement is like getting into a long-term relationship.
Early on, there is the thrill of establishing who you are, being seen, being active, being valued. Being accepted.
Then, once "accepted" for who you are or wish to seem to be, it becomes less important to address everything, to comment on "friend's" posts because they made them. You stop offering to clean the bathrooom and wash up the dishes.
And then your attention starts to wander. Facebook, Twitter, more immediate forums that cater for recognition junkies. You start to notice the 19 year old stunner who lives actoss the road.
The old partner, despite the RAFO facelift and tummy-tuck, is still the old partner. People start to look for something trim, taut and terrific, something not so comfortable than their old, familiar partner.
Despite being tummy-tucked, face-lifted and having had the most incredible boob-job that TMJ could desire, RAFO is still a cosmetically enhanced Wotmania, a site that existed before iPhones, iPods and iPads.
People need to work out which has more value for them, the trusted comfortable companion or the 19-year-old across the street.
On the question of the lack of levity in people's lives, please recall that Wotmania never had a GFC, never had climate change, never had tsunamis. People in real life are more serious these days, and it leaks over here. I wish it were not so, but it is. When life is more serious, you tend not to see the funny side of it. Maybe Gen Y is realising that blaming the Baby Boomers for everything is not exactly going to solve their problems, and are beginning to take life seriously. Gen X will remain bemused by the attention lavished on Gen Y, and the Baby Boomers, a fine body of men and women totally focused on satisfying their needs will continue to hold power and do what they like. Few Boomers come here, excluding me. I can see the funny side in everything, but my fears for my Gen X children and my Gen Y, or is it Gen i, granchildren curtail my enthusiasm for levity. Mrs. Druid and I have accepted our need to work full-time until we are 80 in order to provide a financial buffer for the sundry offspring and offspring's offspring against the reality to come. Not much to be humourous about there.
And...until someone tells me who killed Asmodean, I am unlikely to lighten up!
Forgive my rambling. The need to provide masses of caffeine-free blood to my Transylvanian doctor has me in the grip of full-blown caffeine withdrawal. That, and the Alzheimers, play havoc with what passes for rational argument in any of my discourses.
Early on, there is the thrill of establishing who you are, being seen, being active, being valued. Being accepted.
Then, once "accepted" for who you are or wish to seem to be, it becomes less important to address everything, to comment on "friend's" posts because they made them. You stop offering to clean the bathrooom and wash up the dishes.
And then your attention starts to wander. Facebook, Twitter, more immediate forums that cater for recognition junkies. You start to notice the 19 year old stunner who lives actoss the road.
The old partner, despite the RAFO facelift and tummy-tuck, is still the old partner. People start to look for something trim, taut and terrific, something not so comfortable than their old, familiar partner.
Despite being tummy-tucked, face-lifted and having had the most incredible boob-job that TMJ could desire, RAFO is still a cosmetically enhanced Wotmania, a site that existed before iPhones, iPods and iPads.
People need to work out which has more value for them, the trusted comfortable companion or the 19-year-old across the street.
On the question of the lack of levity in people's lives, please recall that Wotmania never had a GFC, never had climate change, never had tsunamis. People in real life are more serious these days, and it leaks over here. I wish it were not so, but it is. When life is more serious, you tend not to see the funny side of it. Maybe Gen Y is realising that blaming the Baby Boomers for everything is not exactly going to solve their problems, and are beginning to take life seriously. Gen X will remain bemused by the attention lavished on Gen Y, and the Baby Boomers, a fine body of men and women totally focused on satisfying their needs will continue to hold power and do what they like. Few Boomers come here, excluding me. I can see the funny side in everything, but my fears for my Gen X children and my Gen Y, or is it Gen i, granchildren curtail my enthusiasm for levity. Mrs. Druid and I have accepted our need to work full-time until we are 80 in order to provide a financial buffer for the sundry offspring and offspring's offspring against the reality to come. Not much to be humourous about there.
And...until someone tells me who killed Asmodean, I am unlikely to lighten up!
Forgive my rambling. The need to provide masses of caffeine-free blood to my Transylvanian doctor has me in the grip of full-blown caffeine withdrawal. That, and the Alzheimers, play havoc with what passes for rational argument in any of my discourses.
*MySmiley* Druid *MySmiley*
Object of Desire (retired)
The Peoples Front For Nebhead Appreciation
I blame Jake
Object of Desire (retired)
The Peoples Front For Nebhead Appreciation
I blame Jake
Things that I have learned and noticed over 11 years
16/03/2011 11:07:50 PM
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Most of the personal sharing you describe I've shifted over to my Facebook activity.
17/03/2011 12:12:34 AM
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You are getting older, that's all
17/03/2011 01:12:14 AM
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Netscape turns 18 next year....
17/03/2011 01:21:40 AM
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It will never catch on!
17/03/2011 01:32:00 AM
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It's not that I don't still love the Illuminati BBS, a man just needs a little variety sometimes.
17/03/2011 03:30:55 AM
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joel, you're about to get married, no leering at other browsers for you! *NM*
17/03/2011 04:34:35 AM
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What's odd is that I've become happier and more content in recent years
17/03/2011 02:28:14 AM
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Familiarity breeds contempt.
17/03/2011 01:14:03 AM
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remember all that time we spent on the phone? sometimes i miss stuff like that
17/03/2011 05:34:08 AM
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Even I have gotten tired of the politics.
17/03/2011 06:17:23 AM
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My view on politics has changed quite a bit in the past few years
18/03/2011 09:40:31 PM
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Mine hasn't, really, but my opinion of repeating my positions endlessly has.
18/03/2011 11:14:39 PM
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Things I've learned..
17/03/2011 02:17:46 PM
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I stopped trying to be funny when I realized I wasn't, and that I can't take a joke.
17/03/2011 03:19:56 PM
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Well, you could just be silly instead
18/03/2011 09:52:46 PM
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I think part of the problem is people are simply not posting fun stuff any more
17/03/2011 05:03:52 PM
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Chat was definitely better than the MB for building personal relationships.
17/03/2011 11:34:49 PM
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Some of the conversations I have on FB are like chat with really bad lag. *NM*
18/03/2011 01:03:21 AM
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I don't think you like me.
18/03/2011 06:27:45 AM
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So ignore him. I like you.
18/03/2011 07:32:47 AM
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19/03/2011 04:43:55 AM
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Yeah, if you've been avoiding me over an internet fight, you really do.
19/03/2011 08:56:03 AM
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random thoughts is yours? Talk about your unlikely pairings....
18/03/2011 04:32:17 PM
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Re: random thoughts is yours? Talk about your unlikely pairings....
19/03/2011 04:46:59 AM
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It doesn't help that you don't tend to post things that make you likeable.
18/03/2011 06:55:04 AM
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I always took those posts as attempts to include people.
18/03/2011 05:33:55 PM
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That's a very positive outlook, which perhaps is shared by others *NM*
18/03/2011 09:13:43 PM
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10-11 years ago, I might have thought I was a major part of this site. Uncertain of that now,
18/03/2011 09:36:26 PM
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