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I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 Send a noteboard - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM
OK, so you don't need to be really good looking, but I think a reasonable photo is needed?


You're right.

But by GOOD I think we should mean: shows YOU in the best possible light.

You know you smiling, being around people you love- generally being an idealized version of who you really are.

A lot of times I see pictures of guys not smiling, trying to look cool but they just some off as... I dunno... cold, unfeeling, boring... there has to be something to connect with there in the photo.

I picked a random sample from my OKCupid homepage to show what I mean. All these profiles are public.

There is really only ONE "good" pic out of them and they are ALL reasonably good looking guys. But their horrible pictures make me feel negatively about them.
~g~

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Do you date? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 12:00:40 AM 1138 Views
I date my wife random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:58:22 AM 769 Views
errr *NM* random thoughts - 13/01/2011 02:03:16 AM 322 Views
What's all this, then? *NM* globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:31 AM 348 Views
It could be a double post if I wasa noob random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:06:42 PM 642 Views
Ha! POINT! *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:11 AM 341 Views
Smart arse. globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:53 AM 751 Views
My wife frowns on it. TaskmasterJack - 13/01/2011 03:00:46 AM 725 Views
Does she, now? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:04 AM 691 Views
I fail miserably ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 13/01/2011 05:11:37 AM 684 Views
LOL globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:48 AM 626 Views
Re: Do you date? Timthetrolloc - 13/01/2011 05:14:25 AM 844 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:49:56 AM 676 Views
Re: BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ Timthetrolloc - 17/01/2011 04:26:52 AM 687 Views
No. Never have. Camilla - 13/01/2011 09:16:18 AM 814 Views
Amen. Joel - 13/01/2011 03:21:21 PM 735 Views
+1 Clover - 13/01/2011 05:32:11 PM 713 Views
I've always thought so... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:55 AM 694 Views
How strange. Clover - 15/01/2011 07:40:59 PM 609 Views
Good for you, globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:07 AM 706 Views
Not recently, no ironclad - 13/01/2011 10:05:11 AM 886 Views
Thank you for playing! globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:55:31 AM 668 Views
Once upon a time. nossy - 13/01/2011 01:22:22 PM 796 Views
*sigh* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:59:07 AM 675 Views
Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 13/01/2011 02:46:41 PM 739 Views
Re: Dating websites Nate - 13/01/2011 08:57:16 PM 693 Views
Thanks for sharing. That was interesting. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 14/01/2011 02:54:10 AM 324 Views
Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:15:27 AM 929 Views
Re: Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... Nate - 14/01/2011 05:43:50 AM 654 Views
LOL globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:43:52 AM 678 Views
Re: Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 14/01/2011 07:11:01 AM 714 Views
I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM 854 Views
Those were the days... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:00:48 AM 685 Views
a long time ago, in a galaxy far away or maybe the same one as this one.... temeraire - 13/01/2011 03:36:38 PM 773 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Brilliant. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:17:31 AM 674 Views
Nope. Never have. I think there's much less of a tradition of doing that here. Legolas - 13/01/2011 07:52:21 PM 697 Views
I don't think people *really* do it here... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:18:51 AM 580 Views
Do busy drinking to date *NM* mick - 14/01/2011 03:51:40 AM 317 Views
Maybe I should take that up... might help. *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:19:25 AM 317 Views
dating is interesting.... Mat Girl - 14/01/2011 07:16:23 AM 753 Views
By "interesting" I assume you mean "torturous?" globug0822 - 16/01/2011 04:42:11 AM 624 Views
it definitely can be torturous! Mat Girl - 20/01/2011 03:20:32 AM 727 Views
Not since I began attending a university that is only ~30% women. Dreaded Anomaly - 14/01/2011 08:41:55 AM 739 Views
Sure. Jessie - 19/01/2011 04:02:28 AM 678 Views
Exactly! ironclad - 19/01/2011 08:20:32 PM 678 Views
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