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I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 Send a noteboard - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM
OK, so you don't need to be really good looking, but I think a reasonable photo is needed?


You're right.

But by GOOD I think we should mean: shows YOU in the best possible light.

You know you smiling, being around people you love- generally being an idealized version of who you really are.

A lot of times I see pictures of guys not smiling, trying to look cool but they just some off as... I dunno... cold, unfeeling, boring... there has to be something to connect with there in the photo.

I picked a random sample from my OKCupid homepage to show what I mean. All these profiles are public.

There is really only ONE "good" pic out of them and they are ALL reasonably good looking guys. But their horrible pictures make me feel negatively about them.
~g~

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errr *NM* random thoughts - 13/01/2011 02:03:16 AM 331 Views
What's all this, then? *NM* globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:31 AM 357 Views
It could be a double post if I wasa noob random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:06:42 PM 664 Views
Ha! POINT! *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:11 AM 350 Views
Smart arse. globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:53 AM 769 Views
My wife frowns on it. TaskmasterJack - 13/01/2011 03:00:46 AM 747 Views
Does she, now? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:04 AM 713 Views
I fail miserably ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 13/01/2011 05:11:37 AM 701 Views
LOL globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:48 AM 646 Views
Re: Do you date? Timthetrolloc - 13/01/2011 05:14:25 AM 866 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:49:56 AM 696 Views
Re: BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ Timthetrolloc - 17/01/2011 04:26:52 AM 706 Views
No. Never have. Camilla - 13/01/2011 09:16:18 AM 835 Views
Amen. Joel - 13/01/2011 03:21:21 PM 749 Views
+1 Clover - 13/01/2011 05:32:11 PM 730 Views
I've always thought so... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:55 AM 712 Views
How strange. Clover - 15/01/2011 07:40:59 PM 635 Views
Good for you, globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:07 AM 728 Views
Not recently, no ironclad - 13/01/2011 10:05:11 AM 899 Views
Thank you for playing! globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:55:31 AM 686 Views
Once upon a time. nossy - 13/01/2011 01:22:22 PM 816 Views
*sigh* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:59:07 AM 696 Views
Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 13/01/2011 02:46:41 PM 760 Views
Re: Dating websites Nate - 13/01/2011 08:57:16 PM 716 Views
Thanks for sharing. That was interesting. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 14/01/2011 02:54:10 AM 335 Views
Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:15:27 AM 938 Views
Re: Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... Nate - 14/01/2011 05:43:50 AM 671 Views
LOL globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:43:52 AM 696 Views
Re: Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 14/01/2011 07:11:01 AM 733 Views
I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM 876 Views
Those were the days... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:00:48 AM 710 Views
a long time ago, in a galaxy far away or maybe the same one as this one.... temeraire - 13/01/2011 03:36:38 PM 793 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Brilliant. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:17:31 AM 694 Views
Nope. Never have. I think there's much less of a tradition of doing that here. Legolas - 13/01/2011 07:52:21 PM 718 Views
I don't think people *really* do it here... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:18:51 AM 602 Views
Do busy drinking to date *NM* mick - 14/01/2011 03:51:40 AM 325 Views
Maybe I should take that up... might help. *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:19:25 AM 327 Views
dating is interesting.... Mat Girl - 14/01/2011 07:16:23 AM 776 Views
By "interesting" I assume you mean "torturous?" globug0822 - 16/01/2011 04:42:11 AM 638 Views
it definitely can be torturous! Mat Girl - 20/01/2011 03:20:32 AM 749 Views
Not since I began attending a university that is only ~30% women. Dreaded Anomaly - 14/01/2011 08:41:55 AM 759 Views
Sure. Jessie - 19/01/2011 04:02:28 AM 702 Views
Exactly! ironclad - 19/01/2011 08:20:32 PM 695 Views
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