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Re: Gaps Send a noteboard - 17/11/2010 12:12:02 AM
I'm not sure if you want a real response or not.

One thing to consider: a man usually has some distrust for his wife, so there must be an opening.

Essentially, you need to start with some small scale attacks. Not attacks: to use my term from the other thread, some small scale subversion. This doesn't have to be ethically wrong, it only has to be successful. Indeed, truth is a better weapon than untruth, anyway -- and the appearance of truth when there's really nothing there is better than anything. Basically, you need to create situations in which the owner's wife has done something that would bother the owner. Seriously, it needs to be extremely small, we're not talking fraud here or anything. Just very menial stuff, it needs to get back to the owner, and let things go from there. IF you can create some discomfort, it's likely the bullying would get worse at first as she becomes agitated, but it's really the only way to weaken her power somewhat (i.e. she feels weakened in relation to her power relationships, so goes looking to build new power relationships). Just make sure none of it can get back to you, and if it does, make sure it appears none of it was intentional.

If this gets you fired, you can send the subpoena to:

Arnold L. Dwarfengarber
324 Down South End
Atlanta, Georgia 30301
I cannot even copy his manner because the manner of his prose was the manner of his thinking and that was a dazzling succession of gaps; and you cannot ape a gap because you are bound to fill it in somehow or other -- and blot it out in the process. -- Nabokov
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Office Bully - 16/11/2010 04:19:36 AM 1264 Views
Rat poison. *NM* - 16/11/2010 04:37:34 AM 336 Views
Oh yes. - 16/11/2010 04:40:20 AM 690 Views
How does she not answer to anyone? Is she the manager? *NM* - 16/11/2010 05:37:52 AM 299 Views
this is what I was thinking. - 16/11/2010 05:49:03 AM 692 Views
i worked with a guy once who was the owner's neighbor - 16/11/2010 06:42:34 AM 762 Views
She is the owner's wife. *NM* - 16/11/2010 04:40:30 PM 309 Views
do you have an HR department? - 16/11/2010 06:40:29 AM 765 Views
Punch her? *NM* - 16/11/2010 06:42:44 AM 357 Views
Do your job, talk to your manager or HR - 16/11/2010 01:04:05 PM 771 Views
Re: Office Bully - 16/11/2010 04:01:17 PM 744 Views
There is no HR dept/ and she is the owner's wife. - 16/11/2010 04:37:09 PM 773 Views
...have you tried talking with her about it, or are you just assuming it will go poorly? *NM* - 16/11/2010 05:03:18 PM 350 Views
I've spoken to her - 16/11/2010 07:45:26 PM 717 Views
ah yah. in that case, you can probably only quit or "deal" *NM* - 16/11/2010 07:48:31 PM 372 Views
you could stop bullying people - 16/11/2010 04:50:42 PM 746 Views
*NM* - 16/11/2010 06:13:25 PM 394 Views
wow. I just don't know what to say to that. *NM* - 16/11/2010 07:44:14 PM 357 Views
which part did you have a problem with? *NM* - 16/11/2010 08:15:02 PM 344 Views
Well, that was utterly uncalled for. - 16/11/2010 08:26:28 PM 751 Views
oh please - 16/11/2010 10:37:40 PM 887 Views
I don't read every thread on this board. I don't have to. - 16/11/2010 11:04:56 PM 716 Views
I didn't take that as rudenes. I am pretty sure he was just teasing. *NM* - 16/11/2010 10:55:35 PM 339 Views
I thought that was possible on the original reply. The second removed my doubt. - 16/11/2010 11:08:04 PM 807 Views
I took that as a good natured tease. - 16/11/2010 11:14:52 PM 739 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. - 16/11/2010 11:16:57 PM 694 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. - 17/11/2010 12:39:45 AM 743 Views
As did I, actually. *NM* - 16/11/2010 11:25:13 PM 330 Views
Sign me up under this one, too. *NM* - 17/11/2010 10:45:00 PM 383 Views
*NM* - 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM 358 Views
*NM* - 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM 346 Views
Oh you know it! Your reply was nothing but poop flinging. *NM* - 16/11/2010 10:51:07 PM 350 Views
Wow. I read what he said totally different from everyone else. I took the first part as teasing - 16/11/2010 10:57:58 PM 686 Views
You are much better at thinking the best of people! - 16/11/2010 11:02:24 PM 674 Views
Some people make it easy. - 16/11/2010 11:05:08 PM 631 Views
I thought he was teasing too. *NM* - 17/11/2010 02:26:35 AM 317 Views
Re: Ditto. - 17/11/2010 02:30:20 AM 741 Views
Dittoditto - 17/11/2010 03:24:39 AM 821 Views
Make sure that you are doing a superb job... - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM 727 Views
You could tell her you are ready to quit if things continue. - 16/11/2010 11:05:00 PM 691 Views
What would happen if you told her that, Amy? *NM* - 16/11/2010 11:08:28 PM 332 Views
She would likely open the door for me. - 17/11/2010 12:35:23 AM 707 Views
The photography thing is just a hobby/extra income for now, then? *NM* - 17/11/2010 12:38:17 AM 343 Views
It's not full time - 18/11/2010 06:08:22 PM 707 Views
Definitely time to go then. - 17/11/2010 12:45:35 AM 849 Views
Re: - 17/11/2010 12:12:02 AM 827 Views
We had a bully. - 17/11/2010 03:27:31 AM 768 Views
^this. - 18/11/2010 08:37:22 AM 820 Views
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Cut the nozzle and stop pouring in the vinegar solution. *NM* - 18/11/2010 11:47:34 PM 337 Views

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