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Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere Send a noteboard - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM
so that when you do quit you will leave her in a world of hurt. But you are already doing that. So I guess nothing.

Practice being an actress. You could ham it up. Pretend that it doesn't bother you and that you actually appreciate her!! Pretend you are going for the acadamy award for fake happiness!

Also, if you pray, you might try praying for her. Even if it doesn't change her heart it might change yours and make the burden a little lighter.

Sorry you are going through this. Come to think of it, I am going through the same thing. Doh!!! Happily I have people at home and work I can vent to.

Love,
Teresa
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Office Bully Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:19:36 AM 1239 Views
Rat poison. *NM* Tom - 16/11/2010 04:37:34 AM 323 Views
Oh yes. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:20 AM 668 Views
In all seriousness, we don't have enough information on exactly what she's saying/doing. Tom - 16/11/2010 11:21:22 PM 696 Views
How does she not answer to anyone? Is she the manager? *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 05:37:52 AM 287 Views
this is what I was thinking. LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:49:03 AM 672 Views
i worked with a guy once who was the owner's neighbor moondog - 16/11/2010 06:42:34 AM 737 Views
She is the owner's wife. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:30 PM 299 Views
do you have an HR department? moondog - 16/11/2010 06:40:29 AM 745 Views
Punch her? *NM* Kronin al'Sulc - 16/11/2010 06:42:44 AM 347 Views
Do your job, talk to your manager or HR Kel - 16/11/2010 01:04:05 PM 747 Views
Re: Office Bully skippy - 16/11/2010 04:01:17 PM 719 Views
Hrm. Whether there's recourse or not depends on whether you're supported by management Sareitha Sedai - 16/11/2010 04:14:20 PM 693 Views
There is no HR dept/ and she is the owner's wife. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:37:09 PM 751 Views
...have you tried talking with her about it, or are you just assuming it will go poorly? *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:03:18 PM 341 Views
I've spoken to her Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:45:26 PM 690 Views
ah yah. in that case, you can probably only quit or "deal" *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 07:48:31 PM 362 Views
you could stop bullying people random thoughts - 16/11/2010 04:50:42 PM 723 Views
*NM* Birdeye - 16/11/2010 06:13:25 PM 360 Views
wow. I just don't know what to say to that. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:44:14 PM 348 Views
which part did you have a problem with? *NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 08:15:02 PM 334 Views
Well, that was utterly uncalled for. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 08:26:28 PM 733 Views
oh please random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:37:40 PM 832 Views
I don't read every thread on this board. I don't have to. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:04:56 PM 690 Views
I didn't take that as rudenes. I am pretty sure he was just teasing. *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:55:35 PM 328 Views
I thought that was possible on the original reply. The second removed my doubt. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:08:04 PM 786 Views
I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:14:52 PM 716 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:16:57 PM 671 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:39:45 AM 721 Views
As did I, actually. *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 11:25:13 PM 311 Views
Sign me up under this one, too. *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 17/11/2010 10:45:00 PM 375 Views
*NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM 350 Views
*NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM 336 Views
Oh you know it! Your reply was nothing but poop flinging. *NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:51:07 PM 339 Views
Wow. I read what he said totally different from everyone else. I took the first part as teasing Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:57:58 PM 663 Views
You are much better at thinking the best of people! Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:02:24 PM 649 Views
Some people make it easy. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:05:08 PM 605 Views
I thought he was teasing too. *NM* Avendesora - 17/11/2010 02:26:35 AM 309 Views
Re: Ditto. Gaps - 17/11/2010 02:30:20 AM 715 Views
Dittoditto nossy - 17/11/2010 03:24:39 AM 796 Views
Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM 703 Views
You could tell her you are ready to quit if things continue. Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:05:00 PM 657 Views
What would happen if you told her that, Amy? *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:08:28 PM 325 Views
She would likely open the door for me. Amyrlin - 17/11/2010 12:35:23 AM 680 Views
The photography thing is just a hobby/extra income for now, then? *NM* Legolas - 17/11/2010 12:38:17 AM 336 Views
It's not full time Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:08:22 PM 682 Views
Definitely time to go then. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:45:35 AM 827 Views
Re: Gaps - 17/11/2010 12:12:02 AM 798 Views
We had a bully. nossy - 17/11/2010 03:27:31 AM 742 Views
^this. moondog - 18/11/2010 08:37:22 AM 796 Views
Is the bully the boss? MightyYT - 17/11/2010 03:28:08 AM 893 Views
You don't give enough information for us to be able to give you constructive advice *NM* Helene - 18/11/2010 11:30:16 AM 290 Views
How does one combat douchbaggery? Mats Gambling Buddy - 18/11/2010 05:16:20 PM 648 Views
Alas Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:06:38 PM 993 Views
Cut the nozzle and stop pouring in the vinegar solution. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 18/11/2010 11:47:34 PM 326 Views
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