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Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere Send a noteboard - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM
so that when you do quit you will leave her in a world of hurt. But you are already doing that. So I guess nothing.

Practice being an actress. You could ham it up. Pretend that it doesn't bother you and that you actually appreciate her!! Pretend you are going for the acadamy award for fake happiness!

Also, if you pray, you might try praying for her. Even if it doesn't change her heart it might change yours and make the burden a little lighter.

Sorry you are going through this. Come to think of it, I am going through the same thing. Doh!!! Happily I have people at home and work I can vent to.

Love,
Teresa
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Office Bully - 16/11/2010 04:19:36 AM 1175 Views
Rat poison. *NM* - 16/11/2010 04:37:34 AM 295 Views
Oh yes. - 16/11/2010 04:40:20 AM 609 Views
How does she not answer to anyone? Is she the manager? *NM* - 16/11/2010 05:37:52 AM 261 Views
this is what I was thinking. - 16/11/2010 05:49:03 AM 611 Views
i worked with a guy once who was the owner's neighbor - 16/11/2010 06:42:34 AM 670 Views
She is the owner's wife. *NM* - 16/11/2010 04:40:30 PM 273 Views
do you have an HR department? - 16/11/2010 06:40:29 AM 675 Views
Punch her? *NM* - 16/11/2010 06:42:44 AM 318 Views
Do your job, talk to your manager or HR - 16/11/2010 01:04:05 PM 682 Views
Re: Office Bully - 16/11/2010 04:01:17 PM 663 Views
There is no HR dept/ and she is the owner's wife. - 16/11/2010 04:37:09 PM 689 Views
...have you tried talking with her about it, or are you just assuming it will go poorly? *NM* - 16/11/2010 05:03:18 PM 315 Views
I've spoken to her - 16/11/2010 07:45:26 PM 632 Views
ah yah. in that case, you can probably only quit or "deal" *NM* - 16/11/2010 07:48:31 PM 335 Views
you could stop bullying people - 16/11/2010 04:50:42 PM 657 Views
*NM* - 16/11/2010 06:13:25 PM 336 Views
wow. I just don't know what to say to that. *NM* - 16/11/2010 07:44:14 PM 320 Views
which part did you have a problem with? *NM* - 16/11/2010 08:15:02 PM 313 Views
Well, that was utterly uncalled for. - 16/11/2010 08:26:28 PM 664 Views
oh please - 16/11/2010 10:37:40 PM 761 Views
I don't read every thread on this board. I don't have to. - 16/11/2010 11:04:56 PM 631 Views
I didn't take that as rudenes. I am pretty sure he was just teasing. *NM* - 16/11/2010 10:55:35 PM 308 Views
I thought that was possible on the original reply. The second removed my doubt. - 16/11/2010 11:08:04 PM 726 Views
I took that as a good natured tease. - 16/11/2010 11:14:52 PM 646 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. - 16/11/2010 11:16:57 PM 608 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. - 17/11/2010 12:39:45 AM 651 Views
As did I, actually. *NM* - 16/11/2010 11:25:13 PM 281 Views
Sign me up under this one, too. *NM* - 17/11/2010 10:45:00 PM 348 Views
*NM* - 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM 323 Views
*NM* - 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM 309 Views
Oh you know it! Your reply was nothing but poop flinging. *NM* - 16/11/2010 10:51:07 PM 315 Views
Wow. I read what he said totally different from everyone else. I took the first part as teasing - 16/11/2010 10:57:58 PM 604 Views
You are much better at thinking the best of people! - 16/11/2010 11:02:24 PM 590 Views
Some people make it easy. - 16/11/2010 11:05:08 PM 548 Views
I thought he was teasing too. *NM* - 17/11/2010 02:26:35 AM 282 Views
Re: Ditto. - 17/11/2010 02:30:20 AM 652 Views
Dittoditto - 17/11/2010 03:24:39 AM 733 Views
Make sure that you are doing a superb job... - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM 644 Views
You could tell her you are ready to quit if things continue. - 16/11/2010 11:05:00 PM 585 Views
What would happen if you told her that, Amy? *NM* - 16/11/2010 11:08:28 PM 303 Views
She would likely open the door for me. - 17/11/2010 12:35:23 AM 614 Views
The photography thing is just a hobby/extra income for now, then? *NM* - 17/11/2010 12:38:17 AM 308 Views
It's not full time - 18/11/2010 06:08:22 PM 607 Views
Definitely time to go then. - 17/11/2010 12:45:35 AM 766 Views
Re: - 17/11/2010 12:12:02 AM 737 Views
We had a bully. - 17/11/2010 03:27:31 AM 683 Views
^this. - 18/11/2010 08:37:22 AM 734 Views
Is the bully the boss? - 17/11/2010 03:28:08 AM 833 Views
How does one combat douchbaggery? - 18/11/2010 05:16:20 PM 584 Views
Alas - 18/11/2010 06:06:38 PM 928 Views
Cut the nozzle and stop pouring in the vinegar solution. *NM* - 18/11/2010 11:47:34 PM 304 Views

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