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one comment nossy Send a noteboard - 11/11/2010 01:11:43 AM
Humans are social animals: sitting alone somewhere isn't natural. And as anti-thetical as it may sound given the medium (and perhaps hypocritical of me), internet friends don't count. Much of my adult life has been about just this. It's something I still struggle with on occaison, but I'm getting better... it's a process ;)

I believe that internet friends do count, and count for a lot. However, they do not count for everything, especially when the medium is part of what's causing the guilt. Hobbies or sports to start some simple acquaintances would be a good plan.

It's important to throw yourself "out there" and open yourself to failure and rejection. Most of the times, that's what you'll encounter. But the rest of the time makes it worthwhile, when you find something engaging to really get rolling with and grow as a person.

Yes. But it's only scary if one cares too much. The confidence that allows one to move past that will come each step forward.
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Alone in the darkness (megalong ramble) - 10/11/2010 03:42:00 AM 782 Views
Well, let me ask you a couple questions - 10/11/2010 04:33:33 AM 448 Views
wow, that's a lot to share in a short amount of time. - 10/11/2010 01:37:10 PM 532 Views
Re: Alone in the darkness (megalong ramble) - 10/11/2010 02:10:58 PM 515 Views
one comment - 11/11/2010 01:11:43 AM 515 Views
I don't know how much help this'll be, but some thoughts... - 10/11/2010 02:33:37 PM 527 Views
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One big thing, based on the last paragraph. - 11/11/2010 01:06:55 AM 440 Views
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