sorry, but it sounds like the time for "niceness" has long passed
ßelals Girl Send a noteboard - 30/10/2010 07:28:56 PM
It is his father. Does that seem so easy? I mean, I could do it, but that's because we were raised to tell each other what was up. And btw, he's not whining, we've just discussed it. I can tell it bothers him.
It is his father yes, but it sounds like he has already spoken with him several times about it and his father won't stop. In situations like this, you have to be a bit of a hardass. The only way to stop him is to physically prevent him from entering the house, via a lock that he can't open. Yes, it is difficult when it's your own father you have to lock out, but the father has shown that this is the only thing that will stop him from being so invasive, so the roommate has to find the stones to do it.
It also sounds like the father could use some...er...professional help, but no one can make him go. The roomate could suggest it possibly, although that can be very difficult to do diplomatically, but he can't force him to go, so he needs to take measures to protect his privacy himself.
If not, then the father is going to keep cleaning his room every day, and there's nothing you can do about it, so don't make it your problem. Take steps to protect your own living space/stuff and don't worry about it
Does anyone understand co-dependency?
29/10/2010 03:59:52 PM
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It sounds like the man may have some OCD cleaning problems as well.
29/10/2010 04:13:28 PM
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I dunno.
29/10/2010 04:26:19 PM
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Re: I dunno.
29/10/2010 05:11:59 PM
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I don't think it's offensive.
29/10/2010 05:19:03 PM
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well..even if it isn't offensive by nature, his dad will probably still be offended
29/10/2010 05:25:54 PM
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Um... I disagree with "what he's gettingout of it".
30/10/2010 12:48:56 PM
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The father needs to find his own drive, but you probably aren't the one to fix that. *NM*
29/10/2010 06:11:57 PM
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Tell your roomate to sh*t or get off the pot
29/10/2010 07:37:35 PM
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that sounds, er, nice and all
30/10/2010 03:07:06 PM
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sorry, but it sounds like the time for "niceness" has long passed
30/10/2010 07:28:56 PM
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