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He can make sure the place is clean before the father shows up. Avendesora Send a noteboard - 30/10/2010 03:25:40 PM
Not alienating his father seems to be what he's getting out of it. He isn't the most self-sure person out there, so I think part of the problem is that he doesn't feel comfortable making a definitive stance. He's too nice, and really laid back.

Clearly what he's getting out of this is a free maid. He has probably always had a free maid.

It's not exactly a bonus.

I disagree, I would love such a bonus! ;)

However, if the place is clean, and the guy is home, he can suggest to dad that theygo have lunch in the now freed up time.
*MySmiley*

I believe all news and research that supports my opinion, and dismiss the rest as conspiracy and lies.
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Almost? - 29/10/2010 04:45:41 PM 552 Views
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Of course he will. - 29/10/2010 05:37:08 PM 559 Views
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and if one wants a father, rather than a free maid? - 30/10/2010 03:00:03 PM 598 Views
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sorry, but it sounds like the time for "niceness" has long passed - 30/10/2010 07:28:56 PM 609 Views
Give him my address and everyone wins. - 30/10/2010 10:25:30 AM 566 Views
I totally agree with Ave... - 30/10/2010 11:52:08 PM 597 Views

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