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Of course he will. Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 29/10/2010 05:37:08 PM
I know my grandmother gets all butt-hurt when I tell her that no, I really don't need you to my laundry. no really, I'm perfectly capable. JUST LEAVE ME ALLOOOOONE AAAAAAHHHHH

of course, I'm RUDE and UNGRATEFUL for functioning in my own ;)

Point is, that his dad will likely take it personally, or as "I don't want to be around you".

I am assuming this while assuming his roommate is competent in judging the potential reactions of his father. I suppose it's perfectly possible his roommate is just misjudging his father.


Anytime you stop someone from doing something they want to be doing, they are going to be offended. That doesn't make the act of doing so offensive. Parents and grandparents have a reasonable expectation of wanting to be caretaking of their "children" no matter how old they are. Both parties need to be understanding and accepting of that to a reasonable degree, as well as accepting of appropriate boundaries set by the other party, for the relationship to work.

If you are from Betelgeuse, please have one of your Earth friends read what I've written before you respond. Or try concentrating harder.

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Does anyone understand co-dependency? nossy - 29/10/2010 03:59:52 PM 824 Views
That's almost.... creepy. Mats Gambling Buddy - 29/10/2010 04:12:50 PM 549 Views
Almost? nossy - 29/10/2010 04:45:41 PM 553 Views
It sounds like the man may have some OCD cleaning problems as well. Macharius - 29/10/2010 04:13:28 PM 558 Views
I definitely think so. nossy - 29/10/2010 05:08:01 PM 548 Views
Re: I definitely think so. Macharius - 29/10/2010 06:17:51 PM 549 Views
I dunno. Sareitha Sedai - 29/10/2010 04:26:19 PM 610 Views
Re: I dunno. nossy - 29/10/2010 05:11:59 PM 584 Views
I don't think it's offensive. Sareitha Sedai - 29/10/2010 05:19:03 PM 554 Views
well..even if it isn't offensive by nature, his dad will probably still be offended LadyLorraine - 29/10/2010 05:25:54 PM 551 Views
Of course he will. Sareitha Sedai - 29/10/2010 05:37:08 PM 560 Views
Um... I disagree with "what he's gettingout of it". Avendesora - 30/10/2010 12:48:56 PM 537 Views
and if one wants a father, rather than a free maid? nossy - 30/10/2010 03:00:03 PM 599 Views
He can make sure the place is clean before the father shows up. Avendesora - 30/10/2010 03:25:40 PM 549 Views
I honestly think SilverWarder - 29/10/2010 05:12:09 PM 550 Views
I'd also say just take the key, but that's just me. LadyLorraine - 29/10/2010 05:16:17 PM 534 Views
Why does he have a key? BlackAdder - 29/10/2010 05:23:50 PM 484 Views
The father needs to find his own drive, but you probably aren't the one to fix that. *NM* Zalis - 29/10/2010 06:11:57 PM 281 Views
Does he do the dishes and clean the bathrooms? Vodalus - 29/10/2010 06:54:07 PM 534 Views
Tell your roomate to sh*t or get off the pot ßelals Girl - 29/10/2010 07:37:35 PM 530 Views
that sounds, er, nice and all nossy - 30/10/2010 03:07:06 PM 609 Views
sorry, but it sounds like the time for "niceness" has long passed ßelals Girl - 30/10/2010 07:28:56 PM 610 Views
Give him my address and everyone wins. Joel - 30/10/2010 10:25:30 AM 567 Views
I totally agree with Ave... damookster - 30/10/2010 11:52:08 PM 598 Views
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