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It's not immoral to break the marriage contract. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 12/10/2010 08:19:50 PM
It's immoral to break the marriage VOW. That's a terrible analogy.

If you wanted to actually have that apply, you would need a situation in which someone said "I promise that I will pay you" AND had a contract. In both that case and in the case of marriage, what is immoral is breaking a promise. In both cases, you're fufilling the contract.

What I keep saying is that morality is independent of the contract. The absurdity of your marriage hypothetical only proves my point; for your logic to work, it has to be totally fine to cheat on your spouse if you don't have a pre-nup.

And if your marriage is simply a legal relationship with no promises on either side, then no, of course it would be perfectly moral to break it.
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This message last edited by Ghavrel on 12/10/2010 at 08:23:07 PM
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It's a good question - 14/10/2010 02:41:21 AM 854 Views
Sort of have to disagree... - 13/10/2010 02:52:07 AM 901 Views
That's not true actually - 14/10/2010 02:35:43 AM 843 Views
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That's the only kind of morality there is! What the hell is wrong with you? - 12/10/2010 08:15:55 PM 858 Views
nothing wrong with me but I think you are off your meds again - 12/10/2010 09:34:33 PM 863 Views
Re: nothing wrong with me but I think you are off your meds again - 15/10/2010 02:50:49 PM 1361 Views
well I really can't argue with the wrong is wrong end of story belief system - 15/10/2010 05:40:22 PM 1056 Views
A contract isn't a promise; it's a legal agreement. *NM* - 12/10/2010 06:25:24 PM 432 Views
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Hrm. - 12/10/2010 07:35:38 PM 958 Views
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I don't see that as the flaw in my logic. - 12/10/2010 08:37:52 PM 924 Views
Re: I don't see that as the flaw in my logic. - 12/10/2010 09:00:00 PM 1012 Views
also - 12/10/2010 09:37:38 PM 868 Views
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That must be why they have you sign something called an agreementory note *NM* - 12/10/2010 07:33:32 PM 443 Views
Exactly *NM* - 12/10/2010 07:58:25 PM 421 Views
So, you think bankruptcy laws are immoral? - 13/10/2010 12:18:43 AM 894 Views
I don't think it's immoral at all. The contract usually specifies penalties for breach. - 12/10/2010 05:28:34 PM 1003 Views
I thought the answer might be something like that. *NM* - 12/10/2010 05:35:35 PM 401 Views
that is close to the way I see it - 12/10/2010 05:45:25 PM 839 Views
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in a way I did since I did mention society - 12/10/2010 08:54:07 PM 921 Views
Thus the edit - 12/10/2010 09:10:53 PM 955 Views
either way I think you made a good point *NM* - 12/10/2010 09:38:58 PM 402 Views
will those neighbors... - 14/10/2010 04:52:26 AM 1057 Views
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Good point. *NM* - 12/10/2010 11:10:26 PM 421 Views
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I find this line particularly interesting. - 13/10/2010 12:13:18 AM 876 Views
Dunno. - 13/10/2010 12:56:56 AM 977 Views
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Collateral - 19/10/2010 07:21:14 PM 1396 Views
I agree, what do you think is different? - 13/10/2010 09:59:36 PM 896 Views
I lost sleep over it, but I did it anyway. - 13/10/2010 05:24:19 AM 970 Views
OK what if you take it a step further - 13/10/2010 03:44:30 PM 917 Views
Good question - 14/10/2010 05:13:41 AM 940 Views
I have some questions about this issue. - 13/10/2010 08:14:37 AM 899 Views
how do those questions affect the morality of the situation? - 13/10/2010 03:20:14 PM 843 Views
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You are when said bank requires a bailout. And very many of them do. - 13/10/2010 03:22:59 PM 875 Views
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What's the use of suing someone who has no money? *NM* - 13/10/2010 11:48:47 PM 469 Views
You can garnish their wages. - 13/10/2010 11:49:36 PM 873 Views
With parsley? - 13/10/2010 11:51:37 PM 940 Views
No, "someone" most certainly did not, wicked young Miss! Hmph! *NM* - 13/10/2010 11:52:40 PM 456 Views
If they suddenly come into some, you're entitled to it. *NM* - 14/10/2010 12:07:34 AM 535 Views
Bit of a long shot. *NM* - 14/10/2010 12:09:12 AM 398 Views
Very. Best to cover your bases though. *NM* - 14/10/2010 10:04:25 PM 417 Views
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Yeah, I guess we are. - 14/10/2010 10:28:40 PM 935 Views
Re: - 14/10/2010 03:09:18 AM 886 Views
I am currently in that situation... - 14/10/2010 05:03:23 AM 985 Views
Re: I am currently in that situation... - 14/10/2010 05:49:24 PM 1216 Views
it is easy for me and others to be glib when it is just a theory *NM* - 14/10/2010 08:19:16 PM 408 Views

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