I went on a date with a guy who was a friend of a friend. We were set up, I guess? Anyway, he wanted to meet at Express at the local mall. And by the time I got there I knew it wasn't going anywhere and we wouldn't have anything in common except for photography.
First, he wanted me to help him pick out clothes for him. I didn't comply with this because he dressed like a frat boy, popped collar and all. He kind of was annoyed by this... and so I just thought, "Oh, well. Maybe the rest of the date will be better and I'll start having fun.." But, no. It got worse.
We decided to go to the local museum. So, we walk to his car and he says, "I'm tired. You drive." and then hands me his keys. What??? You want me to drive?? Loser. But I drive to the museum... and he starts trying to make out with me the whole time... and he pretty much assaulted me. I didn't want to be rude.. and I didn't have a ride out of there without him.. So, I just pushed him away and tried to hint that maybe we should go have coffee or something. More people around, I suppose?
So, we go to a coffee shop that I love (and knew a lot of people would be around) and he pulls out his hand-held game console thing... and plays games the whole time.
Finally, we go back to the mall and get my car and I decided to end it the next time we spoke. And that was it...
Most awful date of my entire life.
But, now I'm with Andrew and he's never treated me like that ever... and I'm SO glad I have him. So, eventually, I promise you'll find someone you just click with and everything will be fun and better! You'll just have to go through some losers to get there.
First, he wanted me to help him pick out clothes for him. I didn't comply with this because he dressed like a frat boy, popped collar and all. He kind of was annoyed by this... and so I just thought, "Oh, well. Maybe the rest of the date will be better and I'll start having fun.." But, no. It got worse.
We decided to go to the local museum. So, we walk to his car and he says, "I'm tired. You drive." and then hands me his keys. What??? You want me to drive?? Loser. But I drive to the museum... and he starts trying to make out with me the whole time... and he pretty much assaulted me. I didn't want to be rude.. and I didn't have a ride out of there without him.. So, I just pushed him away and tried to hint that maybe we should go have coffee or something. More people around, I suppose?
So, we go to a coffee shop that I love (and knew a lot of people would be around) and he pulls out his hand-held game console thing... and plays games the whole time.
Finally, we go back to the mall and get my car and I decided to end it the next time we spoke. And that was it...
Most awful date of my entire life.
But, now I'm with Andrew and he's never treated me like that ever... and I'm SO glad I have him. So, eventually, I promise you'll find someone you just click with and everything will be fun and better! You'll just have to go through some losers to get there.
Formerly known as Screaming Defiance
Confessions of a Serial Dater [Part 1: The Korean]
06/10/2010 05:25:28 AM
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As a veteran Move-Too-Faster he was coming on WAY too strong for a first date.
06/10/2010 05:48:48 AM
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You should have just gone with it. I feel like you need to get laid. *NM*
06/10/2010 05:52:54 AM
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There's people to have sex with when you need to get laid. This guy isn't that people.
06/10/2010 08:53:45 AM
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WTF?
06/10/2010 08:51:21 AM
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I just can't get over this... I'm shocked and appalled. How low is your self esteem exactly? *NM*
06/10/2010 08:54:48 AM
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While I agree on the WTF factor...
06/10/2010 11:37:55 AM
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You are responsible for how you let someone treat you
06/10/2010 01:44:41 PM
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My advice to you:
06/10/2010 01:32:34 PM
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I agree and disagree with you
06/10/2010 02:11:34 PM
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What sort?
06/10/2010 04:11:30 PM
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I would say piranha, but I'm not sure you want to pay that food bill
06/10/2010 06:36:29 PM
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While it might be incredibly entertaining for us to get a Part Deux to this story...
06/10/2010 02:06:13 PM
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Honestly, I can understand.
06/10/2010 07:34:57 PM
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