While there is such a thing as being "too picky"
Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 06/10/2010 02:34:23 PM
I am a big believer in gut feelings. If you are creeped out by the dude and don't feel anything except disgust when he kisses you, you shouldn't need to ask anyone about the possibility of a 2nd date. Unless you're only doing it to go on as many dates as possible, and even then, I'd think you'd stick with the ones that are at least fun for you
FTR, you should never take the word of someone you've rejected that you're being too picky. They're just bitter that they didn't make the cut. You're supposed to be picky when you pick someone I think it's difficult to discern exactly where the line is, but "we don't have anything in common and I'm actively creeped out by him" doesn't make you sound too picky. We'd be having a different discussion if your reasoning was more along the lines of, "I like him a lot, but he's Korean and I only want to date a Japanese guy." Or, "we had a great time, but I only want a blonde guy with a Bieber cut and this guy is a brunette with a crew cut."
FTR, you should never take the word of someone you've rejected that you're being too picky. They're just bitter that they didn't make the cut. You're supposed to be picky when you pick someone I think it's difficult to discern exactly where the line is, but "we don't have anything in common and I'm actively creeped out by him" doesn't make you sound too picky. We'd be having a different discussion if your reasoning was more along the lines of, "I like him a lot, but he's Korean and I only want to date a Japanese guy." Or, "we had a great time, but I only want a blonde guy with a Bieber cut and this guy is a brunette with a crew cut."
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06/10/2010 05:25:28 AM
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As a veteran Move-Too-Faster he was coming on WAY too strong for a first date.
06/10/2010 05:48:48 AM
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You should have just gone with it. I feel like you need to get laid. *NM*
06/10/2010 05:52:54 AM
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There's people to have sex with when you need to get laid. This guy isn't that people.
06/10/2010 08:53:45 AM
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WTF?
06/10/2010 08:51:21 AM
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I just can't get over this... I'm shocked and appalled. How low is your self esteem exactly? *NM*
06/10/2010 08:54:48 AM
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While I agree on the WTF factor...
06/10/2010 11:37:55 AM
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You are responsible for how you let someone treat you
06/10/2010 01:44:41 PM
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My advice to you:
06/10/2010 01:32:34 PM
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I agree and disagree with you
06/10/2010 02:11:34 PM
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What sort?
06/10/2010 04:11:30 PM
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I would say piranha, but I'm not sure you want to pay that food bill
06/10/2010 06:36:29 PM
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While it might be incredibly entertaining for us to get a Part Deux to this story...
06/10/2010 02:06:13 PM
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While there is such a thing as being "too picky"
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