He's coming on way too strong, but that's cool if both parties are happy with it. You pulled away from the kiss and stated he made you uncomfortable and he touched your boobs anyway. That makes him a creep and an asshole. I wouldn't have stayed, and you probably shouldn't have either, but I disagree with Helene that was inviting his behaviour. He is responsible for how he behaves; you are not.
Still, get the hell away from him. Do not have a second date. A man who can't even respect boundaries on the first date is certainly not going to improve on a second, and honestly, why would you even want to spend time with someone like that?
Be as picky as you like! If you do not like someone, do not like spending time with them, don't enjoy their personality and are irritated by their flaws, why would you date them? There is simply no point. In the long run, dating someone you don't really like, just to be dating someone won't actually make you any happier.
I know a guy who's a lot like your potential suitor who passive-aggressively posted that rant. Unsurprisingly, he does not have a girlfriend and struggles to get a date. There is a reason for this. DOn't listen to him.
Still, get the hell away from him. Do not have a second date. A man who can't even respect boundaries on the first date is certainly not going to improve on a second, and honestly, why would you even want to spend time with someone like that?
Be as picky as you like! If you do not like someone, do not like spending time with them, don't enjoy their personality and are irritated by their flaws, why would you date them? There is simply no point. In the long run, dating someone you don't really like, just to be dating someone won't actually make you any happier.
I know a guy who's a lot like your potential suitor who passive-aggressively posted that rant. Unsurprisingly, he does not have a girlfriend and struggles to get a date. There is a reason for this. DOn't listen to him.
Jennifer
Mornings are still not for me.
Mornings are still not for me.
Confessions of a Serial Dater [Part 1: The Korean]
06/10/2010 05:25:28 AM
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As a veteran Move-Too-Faster he was coming on WAY too strong for a first date.
06/10/2010 05:48:48 AM
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You should have just gone with it. I feel like you need to get laid. *NM*
06/10/2010 05:52:54 AM
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There's people to have sex with when you need to get laid. This guy isn't that people.
06/10/2010 08:53:45 AM
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WTF?
06/10/2010 08:51:21 AM
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I just can't get over this... I'm shocked and appalled. How low is your self esteem exactly? *NM*
06/10/2010 08:54:48 AM
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While I agree on the WTF factor...
06/10/2010 11:37:55 AM
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You are responsible for how you let someone treat you
06/10/2010 01:44:41 PM
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Run like hell. Right now.
06/10/2010 11:35:24 AM
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My advice to you:
06/10/2010 01:32:34 PM
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I agree and disagree with you
06/10/2010 02:11:34 PM
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What sort?
06/10/2010 04:11:30 PM
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I would say piranha, but I'm not sure you want to pay that food bill
06/10/2010 06:36:29 PM
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While it might be incredibly entertaining for us to get a Part Deux to this story...
06/10/2010 02:06:13 PM
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