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Or nossy Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM
Here's one of the really hard parts though... He still has to go back to that state twice every year for work. He'll be back in the spring. I won't be able to trust him. It will be in my head the entire time he's there. I don't want to live like that.

Then tell him that, if he's serious about making things right, he has to get a different job that doesn't require him to travel.

Talk to him about it, and see if he can realize what a big thing that is. It's a tricky situation, but if she does decide she can trust him again, she actually has to do so. While it would be hard to avoid, holding this thing over his head for the rest of his life is not healthy either. It's all part of her upcoming choices.:)
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that's really tough nossy - 05/10/2010 03:09:44 PM 492 Views
Re: that's really tough lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:16:41 PM 614 Views
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I don't know what to say. Avendesora - 05/10/2010 03:51:23 PM 449 Views
Okay, then let me be the one to say... ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:04:11 PM 579 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... lil lady - 05/10/2010 04:07:33 PM 655 Views
I know, that'll be the toughest part ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:11:56 PM 449 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... Macharius - 05/10/2010 04:50:44 PM 474 Views
Or nossy - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM 491 Views
Yeah. Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:06:11 PM 460 Views
Right nossy - 05/10/2010 05:19:29 PM 464 Views
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It's possible Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:00:57 PM 445 Views
That's irrelavant. Palatine - 05/10/2010 05:13:00 PM 449 Views
I agree with what Jens said (similarly not knowing any other details) LadyLorraine - 05/10/2010 05:25:18 PM 420 Views
I'm sorry. Camilla - 05/10/2010 05:02:16 PM 425 Views
What happened exactly? Dan - 05/10/2010 05:52:23 PM 468 Views
Re: What happened exactly? lil lady - 05/10/2010 06:01:42 PM 682 Views
I'm really sorry to hear that... Wulf`gar - 05/10/2010 06:04:54 PM 421 Views
That sucks and there is no easy answer random thoughts - 05/10/2010 06:28:24 PM 420 Views
Cripes. Missa Sedai - 05/10/2010 11:17:21 PM 414 Views
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*hugs* globug0822 - 06/10/2010 06:00:40 AM 381 Views
That's terrible; I wish I could offer advice, but support and prayers are the best I can do. Joel - 06/10/2010 06:18:02 AM 444 Views
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