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well fair enough... ironclad Send a noteboard - 23/09/2010 08:07:08 AM
Well, if they don't want to tell me who they are, they don't get transferred. I learned that on day one. It doesn't matter how sensitive the manner of the call. I screen calls for both our Chair and Executive Admin, as well as anyone whom might call the wrong number.

Exactly.
I was a little surprised you have to ask in the first place, but with the rest of the replies coming in now, it seems to be US standards not to introduce yourself to the company/person you called first? How is that for etiquette?

these days, when I call a company, it's often a central number from which I get forwarded to the department/center I'm actually interested in. I would not give any personal info to the first line unless there was a good reason to do so (e.g., if they could help me without transferring, or if the information would help them transfer me to the right place, etc.).


I just fail to see the big secret and privacy issue about giving them your name. "Hey Mike Miller speaking, can you forward me, please?" What are they gonna do with that info? google it?
*MySmiley*

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I think "May I ask who's calling" is more polite. - 22/09/2010 08:26:55 PM 1008 Views
. - 22/09/2010 08:31:17 PM 969 Views
Well, but... - 22/09/2010 08:42:22 PM 1051 Views
. - 22/09/2010 09:05:01 PM 925 Views
you may not BE a receptionist... - 22/09/2010 09:20:09 PM 1077 Views
"And your name, so I can tell (the person you asked for)?" *NM* - 23/09/2010 12:34:18 AM 468 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? - 22/09/2010 08:33:24 PM 1043 Views
. - 22/09/2010 08:38:45 PM 876 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? - 22/09/2010 08:55:34 PM 1226 Views
Well, the whole asking permission bit is part of being polite. *NM* - 22/09/2010 09:05:43 PM 431 Views
. - 22/09/2010 09:06:47 PM 923 Views
Not so good for the phone answering, then. *NM* - 22/09/2010 11:29:34 PM 467 Views
Hmm... - 22/09/2010 08:59:23 PM 1081 Views
It's "who" *NM* - 22/09/2010 09:50:15 PM 462 Views
Quite true - 22/09/2010 10:07:46 PM 1026 Views
I say, "May I ask who's calling?" - 22/09/2010 09:00:10 PM 1019 Views
What do you do if they say "No" ? - 22/09/2010 09:43:42 PM 958 Views
Than you say. ''Ok." They may have a reason for not disclosing their name. - 22/09/2010 09:49:56 PM 971 Views
That reason is often that they are nutters. - 22/09/2010 10:29:19 PM 1080 Views
I hate it when people pull the "attorney-client privilege" thing. - 22/09/2010 11:31:01 PM 883 Views
They are almost invariably nutters. - 23/09/2010 01:45:41 PM 1325 Views
Tools! - 22/09/2010 10:13:32 PM 947 Views
I usually ask: "Who am I speaking with, again?" - 22/09/2010 09:12:29 PM 1057 Views
I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer - 22/09/2010 09:14:58 PM 1184 Views
^ this. *NM* - 22/09/2010 09:23:00 PM 445 Views
+1 *NM* - 22/09/2010 10:10:59 PM 526 Views
I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" - 22/09/2010 09:27:05 PM 1107 Views
Re: I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" - 22/09/2010 09:40:10 PM 1113 Views
well, i can sympathize with that a bit at least - 22/09/2010 10:00:34 PM 1247 Views
"Who should I say is calling?" *NM* - 22/09/2010 09:41:57 PM 437 Views
This. It's polite, and asks the question correctly. - 23/09/2010 02:05:01 AM 927 Views
I usually say "Who may I say is calling?" but that works too... - 23/09/2010 01:59:03 PM 1333 Views
language games..... - 22/09/2010 09:42:35 PM 1005 Views
There would be apoplectic outcries if I answered the phone in such a way - 22/09/2010 09:45:56 PM 1156 Views
yeah.... i'm happy i get to be informal! - 23/09/2010 02:58:31 AM 1042 Views
Who is this? is unprofessional - 22/09/2010 09:45:05 PM 1032 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional - 22/09/2010 09:48:58 PM 1208 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional - 22/09/2010 09:54:13 PM 1006 Views
it is not US standards. *NM* - 22/09/2010 10:03:47 PM 474 Views
good. *NM* - 22/09/2010 10:13:22 PM 524 Views
I generally don't because - 22/09/2010 10:43:38 PM 898 Views
well fair enough... - 23/09/2010 08:07:08 AM 997 Views
it doesn't matter if you HAVE to know their name. - 22/09/2010 10:07:18 PM 1075 Views
You are being silly and immature. - 22/09/2010 09:49:20 PM 885 Views
Thanks for your input? - 22/09/2010 10:17:21 PM 1105 Views
I usually say, "B*tch, who you be!?" - 22/09/2010 10:13:57 PM 989 Views
Do you pronounce that with a click sound? - 22/09/2010 10:15:29 PM 1016 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? - 22/09/2010 10:29:33 PM 829 Views
Perfect. *NM* - 23/09/2010 12:47:14 AM 519 Views
No you are *NM* - 23/09/2010 11:53:07 AM 510 Views
Who is this? always comes across as rude. *NM* - 22/09/2010 11:17:31 PM 442 Views
"Who may I say is calling, please?" is short and polite. - 23/09/2010 01:13:43 AM 959 Views
when someone asks me "may I ask who's calling?"... - 23/09/2010 03:29:30 AM 927 Views
that's because you're a tool - 23/09/2010 03:39:08 AM 1262 Views
because it amuses me *NM* - 23/09/2010 03:41:18 AM 467 Views
Huh - 15/07/2015 02:06:55 PM 547 Views

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