Please stop splitting hairs. You're way is simply inccorrect. You cannot justify the rudeness away.
M & M Maddy Send a noteboard - 22/09/2010 10:49:05 PM
Almost everyone responding to you has told you that asking "Who is this?" is rude and unprofessional. Because it is. You keep saying you don't want to ask permission. You can't get around it. Asking permission is the ROOT of polite interaction.
Sometimes, I don't want to say please or thank you to people I hate, but I do, because it's polite. Its just how it is. It's the reason we teach children "Say please and thank you." or if you've ever played the game "Mother May I?"
If you call yourself "professional" you MUST accept that you have to ask things. I don't care what you do privately but in a business setting, it is a requirement.
I'm sure you are a hard worker and a good person, but in this thing you are wrong. Stop arguing with everyone. I don't care how nice your tone or if I can hear the smile in your voice, some one saying "Who is this?" when I'm making a business call is off putting. It sounds rude. You can't just think of yourself, you have to think of the person you are speaking to. They don't know you, they don't know your phrasing is harmless. And should you get the wrong person, they will make a fuss about it.
And yes, people who do not identify themselves are annoying. Yes it can even be rudeness toward you. But, politeness and professionalism also require that you rise above other people's mistakes.
You asked for opinions and you got them. You clearly don't like them, but they are correct. You need to change your ways.
Sometimes, I don't want to say please or thank you to people I hate, but I do, because it's polite. Its just how it is. It's the reason we teach children "Say please and thank you." or if you've ever played the game "Mother May I?"
If you call yourself "professional" you MUST accept that you have to ask things. I don't care what you do privately but in a business setting, it is a requirement.
I'm sure you are a hard worker and a good person, but in this thing you are wrong. Stop arguing with everyone. I don't care how nice your tone or if I can hear the smile in your voice, some one saying "Who is this?" when I'm making a business call is off putting. It sounds rude. You can't just think of yourself, you have to think of the person you are speaking to. They don't know you, they don't know your phrasing is harmless. And should you get the wrong person, they will make a fuss about it.
And yes, people who do not identify themselves are annoying. Yes it can even be rudeness toward you. But, politeness and professionalism also require that you rise above other people's mistakes.
You asked for opinions and you got them. You clearly don't like them, but they are correct. You need to change your ways.
You are my audience, always.
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Bring him home. Please.
A beer for Nick? Don't mind if I do.
wotmania? Why it's our legendary home where Kory CrazedWeasel and LittleSoul yet roam. It's where I hope, in the end, to return.
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22/09/2010 08:19:28 PM
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I think "May I ask who's calling" is more polite.
22/09/2010 08:26:55 PM
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22/09/2010 08:31:17 PM
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Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this?
22/09/2010 08:33:24 PM
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22/09/2010 08:38:45 PM
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Well, the whole asking permission bit is part of being polite. *NM*
22/09/2010 09:05:43 PM
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I say, "May I ask who's calling?"
22/09/2010 09:00:10 PM
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What do you do if they say "No" ?
22/09/2010 09:43:42 PM
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Than you say. ''Ok." They may have a reason for not disclosing their name.
22/09/2010 09:49:56 PM
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That reason is often that they are nutters.
22/09/2010 10:29:19 PM
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I hate it when people pull the "attorney-client privilege" thing.
22/09/2010 11:31:01 PM
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Ah, you mean because they want to sell my boss storm windows or vinyl siding. *NM*
22/09/2010 10:30:15 PM
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I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer
22/09/2010 09:14:58 PM
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Re: I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer
22/09/2010 09:42:29 PM
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I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?"
22/09/2010 09:27:05 PM
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Re: I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?"
22/09/2010 09:40:10 PM
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language games.....
22/09/2010 09:42:35 PM
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There would be apoplectic outcries if I answered the phone in such a way
22/09/2010 09:45:56 PM
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Who is this? is unprofessional
22/09/2010 09:45:05 PM
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Re: Who is this? is unprofessional
22/09/2010 09:48:58 PM
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Re: Who is this? is unprofessional
22/09/2010 09:54:13 PM
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You don’t have to transfer for them if they refuse but you should still ask politely
22/09/2010 10:31:55 PM
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I usually say, "B*tch, who you be!?"
22/09/2010 10:13:57 PM
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And I be all, like, sobbing and crying cause you're a rude jerk. And then you laugh at me some more
22/09/2010 10:33:38 PM
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Please stop splitting hairs. You're way is simply inccorrect. You cannot justify the rudeness away.
22/09/2010 10:49:05 PM
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when someone asks me "may I ask who's calling?"...
23/09/2010 03:29:30 AM
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It's quite simple, really. Do you like getting paid? Then answer the phone the way your boss wants *NM*
24/09/2010 03:46:24 AM
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