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You don’t have to transfer for them if they refuse but you should still ask politely random thoughts Send a noteboard - 22/09/2010 10:31:55 PM
This really isn’t an opinion issue or about the way you believe things should be. In the professional world there are rules of etiquette that people expect you to follow. Not demanding the name of the person you are speaking to is part of that well established etiquette.

Insisting that those rules do not apply to you is like insisting that grammar rules should apply to in a business setting. I am pretty lazy with my grammar around here but if I am corresponding with a customer or someone high up the food chain I put much greater effort in to ensuring I use proper grammar. The fact that the customer would still be able to understand me if I used poor grammar is beside the point.
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. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:19:28 PM 1579 Views
I think "May I ask who's calling" is more polite. Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 08:26:55 PM 1001 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:31:17 PM 963 Views
Well, but... Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 08:42:22 PM 1045 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:05:01 PM 920 Views
you may not BE a receptionist... LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:20:09 PM 1073 Views
"And your name, so I can tell (the person you asked for)?" *NM* Hezzah - 23/09/2010 12:34:18 AM 464 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 08:33:24 PM 1037 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:38:45 PM 870 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 08:55:34 PM 1221 Views
Well, the whole asking permission bit is part of being polite. *NM* Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 09:05:43 PM 429 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:06:47 PM 919 Views
Not so good for the phone answering, then. *NM* Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 11:29:34 PM 463 Views
Hmm... Isaac - 22/09/2010 08:59:23 PM 1074 Views
It's "who" *NM* Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:50:15 PM 460 Views
Quite true Isaac - 22/09/2010 10:07:46 PM 1020 Views
I say, "May I ask who's calling?" Tigr - 22/09/2010 09:00:10 PM 1011 Views
What do you do if they say "No" ? TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 09:43:42 PM 954 Views
Than you say. ''Ok." They may have a reason for not disclosing their name. Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:49:56 PM 965 Views
That reason is often that they are nutters. M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 10:29:19 PM 1076 Views
I hate it when people pull the "attorney-client privilege" thing. Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 11:31:01 PM 874 Views
They are almost invariably nutters. Elaine - 23/09/2010 01:45:41 PM 1318 Views
Ah, you mean because they want to sell my boss storm windows or vinyl siding. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 10:30:15 PM 465 Views
Tools! Tigr - 22/09/2010 10:13:32 PM 940 Views
I usually ask: "Who am I speaking with, again?" ironclad - 22/09/2010 09:12:29 PM 1050 Views
I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 09:14:58 PM 1177 Views
^ this. *NM* LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:23:00 PM 442 Views
Re: I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:42:29 PM 1094 Views
+1 *NM* Rebekah - 22/09/2010 10:10:59 PM 523 Views
I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:27:05 PM 1092 Views
Re: I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:40:10 PM 1105 Views
well, i can sympathize with that a bit at least LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:00:34 PM 1236 Views
"Who should I say is calling?" *NM* TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 09:41:57 PM 435 Views
This. It's polite, and asks the question correctly. beetnemesis - 23/09/2010 02:05:01 AM 919 Views
I usually say "Who may I say is calling?" but that works too... Tom - 23/09/2010 01:59:03 PM 1328 Views
language games..... temeraire - 22/09/2010 09:42:35 PM 998 Views
There would be apoplectic outcries if I answered the phone in such a way lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:45:56 PM 1145 Views
yeah.... i'm happy i get to be informal! temeraire - 23/09/2010 02:58:31 AM 1030 Views
Who is this? is unprofessional random thoughts - 22/09/2010 09:45:05 PM 1026 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:48:58 PM 1199 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional ironclad - 22/09/2010 09:54:13 PM 1002 Views
it is not US standards. *NM* LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:03:47 PM 463 Views
good. *NM* ironclad - 22/09/2010 10:13:22 PM 520 Views
I generally don't because BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 10:43:38 PM 891 Views
well fair enough... ironclad - 23/09/2010 08:07:08 AM 987 Views
it doesn't matter if you HAVE to know their name. LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:07:18 PM 1066 Views
You don’t have to transfer for them if they refuse but you should still ask politely random thoughts - 22/09/2010 10:31:55 PM 1059 Views
You are being silly and immature. Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:49:20 PM 878 Views
Thanks for your input? lyringlas - 22/09/2010 10:17:21 PM 1095 Views
I usually say, "B*tch, who you be!?" Mats Gambling Buddy - 22/09/2010 10:13:57 PM 981 Views
Do you pronounce that with a click sound? Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 10:15:29 PM 1008 Views
And I be all, like, sobbing and crying cause you're a rude jerk. And then you laugh at me some more TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 10:33:38 PM 962 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? Zeeb - 22/09/2010 10:29:33 PM 825 Views
Perfect. *NM* Avendesora - 23/09/2010 12:47:14 AM 516 Views
No you are *NM* Zeeb - 23/09/2010 11:53:07 AM 508 Views
Please stop splitting hairs. You're way is simply inccorrect. You cannot justify the rudeness away. M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 10:49:05 PM 1109 Views
politeness is practically the definition of professionalism. LadyLorraine - 23/09/2010 03:37:27 AM 1034 Views
Who is this? always comes across as rude. *NM* Chas - 22/09/2010 11:17:31 PM 437 Views
"Who may I say is calling, please?" is short and polite. Tashmere - 23/09/2010 01:13:43 AM 952 Views
when someone asks me "may I ask who's calling?"... damookster - 23/09/2010 03:29:30 AM 923 Views
that's because you're a tool LadyLorraine - 23/09/2010 03:39:08 AM 1255 Views
because it amuses me *NM* damookster - 23/09/2010 03:41:18 AM 465 Views
It's quite simple, really. Do you like getting paid? Then answer the phone the way your boss wants *NM* Missa Sedai - 24/09/2010 03:46:24 AM 500 Views
Huh Sareitha Sedai - 15/07/2015 02:06:55 PM 544 Views
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