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Re: How American of you Camilla Send a noteboard - 23/08/2010 05:27:56 PM
Sharing tables with strangers is completely taboo in most area over here. The only time it is acceptable (in my experiences) is when it is a very large booth, and you can share the table with someone else while not having to look at them.

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Person A Person B

[========table===========] This is acceptable

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Person A

[========table===========] This is unacceptable

Person B

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Thankfully I never have this problem, because hostility comes off of me in a figurative aura, and people generally avoid looking at me. I generally think I look friendly, and people avoid eye contact or ask me what is wrong. It's perplexing, but saves me a lot of small talk (I hate small talk).


Apparenlty I look safe and friendly. Perhaps it is because I am always reading, so it doesn't look like they'll have to talk to me. Of course, that does not explain this lady who was quite talkative until I had beaten her into submission with my monosyllables.
*MySmiley*
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Regrets - 23/08/2010 04:25:33 PM 742 Views
well thats just terrilbe - 23/08/2010 04:51:20 PM 540 Views
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I think I might be Norwegian. - 23/08/2010 05:06:29 PM 582 Views
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I'm disappointed - 23/08/2010 05:18:44 PM 586 Views
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How American of you - 23/08/2010 05:18:48 PM 675 Views
Re: How American of you - 23/08/2010 05:27:56 PM 567 Views
I am American - and I share my table often. - 23/08/2010 09:48:08 PM 536 Views
How rude. - 23/08/2010 07:57:45 PM 569 Views
Indeed - 23/08/2010 07:59:11 PM 576 Views
Re: Regrets - 23/08/2010 10:15:16 PM 796 Views
Re: Regrets - 23/08/2010 11:30:35 PM 552 Views
I think the problem is that you go into small cafés. - 23/08/2010 10:28:04 PM 542 Views
But I don't. - 23/08/2010 11:33:16 PM 530 Views
Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 23/08/2010 11:45:35 PM 512 Views
Re: Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 23/08/2010 11:50:16 PM 528 Views
Re: Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 24/08/2010 12:13:16 AM 599 Views
You should keep - 24/08/2010 12:06:41 AM 565 Views
Re: You should keep - 24/08/2010 10:12:23 AM 514 Views
Urgh, table-sharing lunatics. - 24/08/2010 02:12:42 PM 548 Views
Re: Urgh, table-sharing lunatics. - 24/08/2010 03:58:30 PM 571 Views
it wouldn't bother me to have someone sit at my table - 24/08/2010 04:29:49 PM 525 Views
Re: it wouldn't bother me to have someone sit at my table - 24/08/2010 04:32:04 PM 503 Views
I have been told I am lacking in some needed social inhibitions - 24/08/2010 10:14:52 PM 525 Views
Me either. I suspect it's a southern thing. - 24/08/2010 09:44:08 PM 547 Views
probably true *NM* - 24/08/2010 10:16:05 PM 231 Views

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