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Age-ists! Clover Send a noteboard - 11/08/2010 03:12:17 AM
1. Would you be offended if someone guessed you were 7 years older than you are?

No, I would be amused. People's guesses about my age vary wildly based on what I'm wearing, what I'm doing, and how much they've actually spoken with me (as opposed to just hearing my voice once and giving a cursory glance).

2. Do you think people assume "professionals" have to be older than 24?

Well, there is the college thing, and the law of averages... it's not unreasonable to be surprised by one so young.

3. What would you do if someone guessed that far off on your age?

Smile and correct them.

4. Is it better to be perceived as your actual age, or to be perceived as older/more mature? Is it better to be perceived as younger?

It depends on your starting point ;) At 15, it's much nicer to be perceived as older... and from a non-shallow perspective, that may even hold true throughout one's life, but the most desirable physical age is relatively young. If looks are important to you, you will always be happy when someone guesses low.

5. I should just get over it, and realize that one guy is bad at guessing ages... right?

Yes. :) I am terrible at guessing ages myself. Some people are just like that.

I wonder why I can't view profile pictures? Did I miss something? If I could, I'd tell you what I think of your looks to age ratio!
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