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Age Phelix Send a noteboard - 09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM
So, the other day, at a semi-formal event representing my boss, an older gentleman approached me and started making small talk. After a bit, he commented on how young I seemed, I couldn't be older than 31. I chuckled and told him that my 24th Birthday is next week, and that killed the conversation. He was embarrassed that his guess was 7 years off, and I was a bit offended that anyone would think I'm in my thirties just yet.

1. Would you be offended if someone guessed you were 7 years older than you are?

2. Do you think people assume "professionals" have to be older than 24?

3. What would you do if someone guessed that far off on your age?

4. Is it better to be perceived as your actual age, or to be perceived as older/more mature? Is it better to be perceived as younger?

5. I should just get over it, and realize that one guy is bad at guessing ages... right?
I was Phelix on wotmania, I will always be Phelix in the "real" world, and now I am Phelix on RAFO.

You will make all kinds of mistakes; but as long as you are generous and true and also fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.- Churchill

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Age - 09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM 746 Views
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In the US you're supposed to graduate college at 22. - 10/08/2010 06:19:43 AM 558 Views
I've always claimed every year I could when teaching - 09/08/2010 09:51:45 PM 605 Views
I try to hold off on aging... it's odd to be still in my BA while 24 years old. - 10/08/2010 12:05:32 AM 643 Views
Especially since I had already earned my MA by 23 - 10/08/2010 01:29:06 AM 574 Views
Pretty sure that's the norm. *NM* - 10/08/2010 03:21:34 AM 243 Views
Not really, not in my field anyways - 10/08/2010 04:06:22 AM 524 Views
That hasn't been my experience. There are many 1 year MA programs now. - 10/08/2010 08:09:13 AM 465 Views
May be - 10/08/2010 06:58:46 PM 596 Views
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Judging by your profile pic, 31 is very generous. - 09/08/2010 10:18:50 PM 564 Views
I thought I was leaving it mysterious... - 10/08/2010 12:10:39 AM 574 Views
Re: Age *NM* - 09/08/2010 11:02:59 PM 289 Views
Enlightening. *NM* - 10/08/2010 12:10:55 AM 189 Views
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Surely, I would. *NM* - 11/08/2010 12:47:21 AM 279 Views
I was only telling the truth! *NM* - 11/08/2010 11:48:47 PM 263 Views
The truth shall set you free... into the cold arms of death. *NM* - 12/08/2010 12:00:58 AM 256 Views
Tigers are whimsical - 11/08/2010 12:28:51 PM 551 Views
Phelix is a tiger? - 11/08/2010 11:48:17 PM 570 Views
What do you want for your birthday? - 10/08/2010 04:35:47 AM 499 Views
Any one or combination of these things: - 10/08/2010 06:26:20 AM 533 Views
I just need sizes now, email me them - 10/08/2010 06:17:23 PM 755 Views
I would assume he's joking. - 10/08/2010 06:16:13 AM 564 Views
He seemed sincere... but maybe his jokes were that bad. - 10/08/2010 06:36:16 AM 602 Views
The weight thing goes both ways. - 11/08/2010 01:22:30 AM 559 Views
Re: Age - 10/08/2010 10:02:02 AM 540 Views
that is nothing to get offended about - 10/08/2010 12:21:36 PM 621 Views
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Age-ists! - 11/08/2010 03:12:17 AM 549 Views
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