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One thing I learned in the USA was never to say "we met on the internet" to immigration officials. Tim Send a noteboard - 01/06/2010 11:18:39 PM
And that was just for a gathering, not a wedding (much less my own).

Have you thought about finding a country that doesn't require in order for people to marry there (a) one of the parties to live there and (b) special permits for people subject to immigration control? There's bound to be one somewhere in Europe. You could take professional advice on whether or not already being married would help you to get a visa (there could be rules to help keep spouses together, but conversely a quickie wedding abroad could make them smell a rat). If so, go to your chosen country, get married in the town hall, and have a party in Norway later. You'd be apart for some of the time you were married, which would suck, but it's an improvement on the current situation (neither married nor together).

Good luck, whatever you do.
Vigilantibus non dormientibus jura subveniunt.

—Nous disons en allemand : le guerre, le mort, le lune, alors que 'soleil' et 'amour' sont du sexe féminin : la soleil, la amour. La vie est neutre.

—La vie ? Neutre ? C'est très joli, et surtout très logique.
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Meanwhile, the Wedding Is Postponed Indefinitely. - 01/06/2010 09:17:35 AM 1215 Views
You meant postponed until further notice - 01/06/2010 10:44:30 AM 734 Views
How so? - 01/06/2010 10:56:48 AM 637 Views
The phrase "postponed indefinitely" is what I'm referring to - 01/06/2010 12:01:59 PM 593 Views
It IS indefinite though. - 01/06/2010 12:17:07 PM 741 Views
I think the point is popular use,,, - 01/06/2010 12:19:05 PM 694 Views
I'm frequently accused of prescriptivism, and don't deny it. - 01/06/2010 12:22:39 PM 724 Views
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They will do as they're told or be severely beaten111 - 01/06/2010 05:33:22 PM 614 Views
It's a phrase used in government regarding motions - 01/06/2010 08:13:42 PM 654 Views
Postponed/=canceled. - 01/06/2010 08:51:14 PM 809 Views
That is quite shocking. *NM* - 01/06/2010 02:01:52 PM 397 Views
Yeah, sucks for everyone, very sorry. - 01/06/2010 02:18:52 PM 721 Views
Good luck. *NM* - 01/06/2010 04:55:32 PM 359 Views
Thanks, Amy. - 01/06/2010 05:18:01 PM 688 Views
Bummer wishes you luck and/or patience *NM* - 01/06/2010 05:59:47 PM 253 Views
Thanks, man. - 01/06/2010 06:29:19 PM 739 Views
My country is a - 01/06/2010 07:09:22 PM 619 Views
*snuggles all better* - 01/06/2010 07:47:45 PM 801 Views
*is snuggled and happy* - 01/06/2010 07:59:34 PM 712 Views
Has Norway enshrined the ECHR into domestic law? - 01/06/2010 11:10:34 PM 789 Views
I'm sorry you're having trouble with this. - 01/06/2010 10:25:07 PM 642 Views
Thanks. - 02/06/2010 01:32:06 AM 627 Views
One thing I learned in the USA was never to say "we met on the internet" to immigration officials. - 01/06/2010 11:18:39 PM 800 Views
Ah! They caught on to your dastardly plot! - 02/06/2010 01:40:15 AM 649 Views
Actually, I doubt I'll ever seek Norwegian citizenship. - 02/06/2010 03:22:53 AM 612 Views
OH DEAR!!!! - 02/06/2010 04:17:15 AM 675 Views
*hugs muchly* - 02/06/2010 04:20:56 AM 706 Views
That's terrible - 02/06/2010 11:30:27 AM 664 Views
I'm not really scared, just angry. - 02/06/2010 05:12:48 PM 690 Views
Ouch - I'm sorry to hear that. - 02/06/2010 05:36:37 PM 647 Views
Thanks, it'll work out, somehow. - 02/06/2010 05:55:51 PM 606 Views

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