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One thing I learned in the USA was never to say "we met on the internet" to immigration officials. Tim Send a noteboard - 01/06/2010 11:18:39 PM
And that was just for a gathering, not a wedding (much less my own).

Have you thought about finding a country that doesn't require in order for people to marry there (a) one of the parties to live there and (b) special permits for people subject to immigration control? There's bound to be one somewhere in Europe. You could take professional advice on whether or not already being married would help you to get a visa (there could be rules to help keep spouses together, but conversely a quickie wedding abroad could make them smell a rat). If so, go to your chosen country, get married in the town hall, and have a party in Norway later. You'd be apart for some of the time you were married, which would suck, but it's an improvement on the current situation (neither married nor together).

Good luck, whatever you do.
Vigilantibus non dormientibus jura subveniunt.

—Nous disons en allemand : le guerre, le mort, le lune, alors que 'soleil' et 'amour' sont du sexe féminin : la soleil, la amour. La vie est neutre.

—La vie ? Neutre ? C'est très joli, et surtout très logique.
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Meanwhile, the Wedding Is Postponed Indefinitely. - 01/06/2010 09:17:35 AM 1206 Views
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Bummer wishes you luck and/or patience *NM* - 01/06/2010 05:59:47 PM 249 Views
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My country is a - 01/06/2010 07:09:22 PM 611 Views
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*is snuggled and happy* - 01/06/2010 07:59:34 PM 701 Views
Has Norway enshrined the ECHR into domestic law? - 01/06/2010 11:10:34 PM 781 Views
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One thing I learned in the USA was never to say "we met on the internet" to immigration officials. - 01/06/2010 11:18:39 PM 789 Views
Ah! They caught on to your dastardly plot! - 02/06/2010 01:40:15 AM 638 Views
Actually, I doubt I'll ever seek Norwegian citizenship. - 02/06/2010 03:22:53 AM 603 Views
OH DEAR!!!! - 02/06/2010 04:17:15 AM 662 Views
*hugs muchly* - 02/06/2010 04:20:56 AM 697 Views
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I'm not really scared, just angry. - 02/06/2010 05:12:48 PM 683 Views
Ouch - I'm sorry to hear that. - 02/06/2010 05:36:37 PM 637 Views
Thanks, it'll work out, somehow. - 02/06/2010 05:55:51 PM 594 Views

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