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Spring-time forests with flowers *NM* Floffe Send a noteboard - 10/05/2010 05:59:46 AM
No, really. Why do we, you, I, stick around? Love? Sex? Hugsies from Mommy? Money? Books? LSD? Babies? Duty?

I don't want to be talked out of committing suicide, mostly because I'm not committing suicide. But I am alive today mostly because of some vague principle that dying is probably worse than all this, my parents and brother would be sad, and I'm in therapy so that I don't commit suicide. So far as results go, it's working.

But over the last few months, I gotta tell you. I don't see the point. It's just going to be more of this... this struggle. Day after day. Why am I doing this? Obviously I'm missing something. Something that makes life "worth living" in a concrete sense, not just in this vague amorphous way.

What am I missing? I've been told to "cheer up" and the only reason I'm not happy is that I'm "not trying". It's like I "want to be miserable". And I look at my little white pills that help me get out of bed in the morning, at my very nice therapist who tells me not to be so angry at myself for not being happy or accomplished or okay... I don't know how to do this "trying" or "doing" or "cheerying".

So. If you feel up to it, if you want to, if you feel like it. Share your joy with me, for a bit, please?
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Danae-Log: So. What makes life worth living? - 08/05/2010 05:04:26 PM 1523 Views
The good bits - 08/05/2010 05:17:37 PM 1142 Views
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Re: I think lots of us had pre-construed that anyway. Sorry. - 08/05/2010 05:45:35 PM 957 Views
Re: It said: - 08/05/2010 06:01:59 PM 967 Views
Re: It said: - 09/05/2010 12:04:37 AM 836 Views
Excellent reply *NM* - 10/05/2010 12:34:10 PM 596 Views
Suicide is scary - 08/05/2010 05:28:00 PM 1119 Views
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Dunno - 08/05/2010 06:01:06 PM 1123 Views
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I can only think of one reason - 08/05/2010 06:43:11 PM 1156 Views
Re: I feel a little ignorant. - 08/05/2010 06:45:47 PM 919 Views
Yeah, that one (typos ) - 08/05/2010 06:46:37 PM 1069 Views
Frankly, I agree, but it's not something of which people can be really be "convinced. " - 12/05/2010 12:43:29 AM 1133 Views
No - 12/05/2010 12:53:42 AM 1039 Views
Oh, I totally agree. - 12/05/2010 01:05:29 AM 947 Views
Ah, so you used "convinced" as a verb and not as a participle *NM* - 12/05/2010 09:30:59 AM 594 Views
Right. - 12/05/2010 12:17:59 PM 1305 Views
personally - 08/05/2010 06:45:45 PM 1014 Views
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I have two - 08/05/2010 06:55:39 PM 1062 Views
That's an insanely hard question Danae - 08/05/2010 08:53:06 PM 1114 Views
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Ah, I see - 08/05/2010 09:19:22 PM 1051 Views
Re: I think the difference between you and me in some ways is... - 08/05/2010 09:27:17 PM 899 Views
Well - I'm glad it's of some help :-) - 09/05/2010 09:39:20 AM 963 Views
So what makes you think death is any better? *NM* - 08/05/2010 09:11:46 PM 564 Views
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Answers lie within - 08/05/2010 09:43:01 PM 1052 Views
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No easy answer. - 08/05/2010 09:26:52 PM 847 Views
I'm probably not the right person to answer this question... - 08/05/2010 09:34:35 PM 1244 Views
Re: Don't take this the wrong way... - 08/05/2010 09:36:21 PM 1096 Views
I'm praying for you right now... - 10/05/2010 10:08:32 PM 986 Views
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That would be way awesome. - 09/05/2010 11:53:40 PM 1071 Views
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Experience - 08/05/2010 10:44:08 PM 1115 Views
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Who's to say I haven't? - 09/05/2010 11:56:56 AM 873 Views
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Re: That's interesting. - 09/05/2010 05:26:34 AM 996 Views
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Because I can't be world dictator if I am dead - 08/05/2010 10:47:37 PM 943 Views
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Helping other people. *NM* - 08/05/2010 10:51:28 PM 481 Views
Re: If you don't mind my asking, - 09/05/2010 05:31:22 AM 995 Views
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Can't help you there. - 08/05/2010 11:22:01 PM 987 Views
Re: When the theses are done they can be fun! *NM* - 09/05/2010 05:31:48 AM 531 Views
Hmmm. No. - 09/05/2010 04:44:44 PM 1066 Views
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That there will be a sixth season of Supernatural? - 09/05/2010 06:30:34 AM 1075 Views
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Re: You don't have to find stuff for me! - 09/05/2010 10:31:00 AM 971 Views
Love is all that keeps me sane. - 09/05/2010 07:31:44 AM 1000 Views
Re: *NM* - 09/05/2010 10:31:18 AM 452 Views
Whatever you decide it does - 09/05/2010 10:17:09 AM 995 Views
Re: I have not seen that, that is KICKASS. - 09/05/2010 10:38:34 AM 1018 Views
*flourishes hat* - 09/05/2010 08:44:33 PM 1160 Views
That video is excellent, thanks! *NM* - 09/05/2010 05:52:11 PM 455 Views
Bad dancing is too awesome to not be shared *NM* - 09/05/2010 08:46:27 PM 511 Views
The small things. - 09/05/2010 10:45:46 AM 1094 Views
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waitwaitwait - 09/05/2010 12:18:13 PM 864 Views
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To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you... - 10/05/2010 01:40:14 AM 959 Views
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Hmm. I'm trying to seriously consider your question. - 10/05/2010 02:21:32 AM 1001 Views
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Spring-time forests with flowers *NM* - 10/05/2010 05:59:46 AM 461 Views
Re: *NM* - 10/05/2010 08:41:19 AM 450 Views
I stick around for updates to the Danae-Log! - 10/05/2010 12:14:43 PM 1099 Views
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Heh. click the link. - 10/05/2010 05:45:53 PM 1052 Views
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Perv. *NM* - 11/05/2010 02:00:43 AM 555 Views
Re: Danae-Log: So. What makes life worth living? - 11/05/2010 09:28:09 PM 970 Views
Love and the people who share it still seem the best answer. - 12/05/2010 01:01:51 AM 972 Views
I don't think it's a question to ask, but a decision to make - 14/05/2010 07:38:46 PM 1119 Views

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