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But that's a good thing ironclad Send a noteboard - 04/05/2010 12:34:02 PM
This makes it tempting for the kind of guy who's too nervous to talk anyway, and likes to just sit there thinking "OMG she's right next to me!" and enjoy torturing himself with the tension, but it isn't very helpful in the long run.

For a while you can just sit there and get comfortable with each other. No one expects the guy to be smart or funny during the film, because everyone's silent anyway. Plus the film gives you a topic to talk about afterwards, where it's easy to add a cup of coffee to prolong the evening.
But I guess you are right, it depends on the kind of guy.
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So the hot girl at work is single. What to do...? soilent brad - 03/05/2010 11:02:31 PM 1063 Views
How well do you actually know her? Jragghen - 03/05/2010 11:07:21 PM 700 Views
Hmm... you've a point there. soilent brad - 03/05/2010 11:45:36 PM 732 Views
The reason cinema dates are bad is because you can't talk. Tim - 04/05/2010 12:24:33 PM 649 Views
But that's a good thing ironclad - 04/05/2010 12:34:02 PM 664 Views
Hmm... soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:09:56 PM 721 Views
Yes, that does sound a bit like me... soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:07:06 PM 668 Views
Learn to talk. beckstcw - 04/05/2010 01:35:46 AM 695 Views
I'm much more talkative than when I first found wotmania 8 years ago soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:40:46 AM 638 Views
Yes. beckstcw - 04/05/2010 04:47:45 AM 674 Views
Ah. That makes more sense soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:39:02 AM 614 Views
Um. That already sounds like an awkward date. Tashmere - 04/05/2010 01:52:45 AM 681 Views
Possibly, yes soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:10:27 AM 748 Views
As long as you eventually open up. Tashmere - 04/05/2010 02:26:40 AM 629 Views
Exactly soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:43:48 AM 654 Views
Not really ... I love this girl I work with and she's the exact opposite of me ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 04/05/2010 06:30:44 AM 749 Views
I wasn't referring to differences in culture Tashmere - 04/05/2010 07:46:21 AM 623 Views
That's true ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 04/05/2010 06:43:20 PM 711 Views
Movie and then to a cafe/pub/something not-dinnery afterwards Maria - 04/05/2010 10:59:05 AM 642 Views
Exactly, I find movie dates work great ironclad - 04/05/2010 11:47:51 AM 1020 Views
Talking is the bane of my existance! soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:12:39 PM 693 Views
I'm not much for small talk either. Jacob - 04/05/2010 06:20:51 PM 607 Views
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mispost *NM* lyringlas - 04/05/2010 10:22:33 PM 252 Views
If it doesn't work you can spread rumours about her *NM* AgentOrange - 04/05/2010 06:21:33 PM 253 Views
Not to sound too harsh... lyringlas - 04/05/2010 10:24:36 PM 659 Views
I'm an extreme introvert, and can be socially inept even around some of my closest friends/family soilent brad - 05/05/2010 12:30:46 AM 815 Views
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LOL! Always you, Brad. rebelaessedai - 07/05/2010 07:27:57 PM 592 Views
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