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On the Rape issue.... djwilson300 Send a noteboard - 14/08/2012 01:19:35 AM
I feel like you missed a major setting issue. The books take place in a medieval time period where arranged marriages are consummated as soon as a girl "flowers" (12-13 years old in many cases).

Direct from Wikipedia (which we all know has to be true)
The definition of rape varies both in different parts of the world and at different times in history.[17] It is defined in many jurisdictions as sexual intercourse, or other forms of sexual penetration, of one person by another person without the consent of the victim.[17]

If I recall, Daeny does say yes and therefor that is not the definition of rape, although not how you and I would view consensual either. It is a completely different cultural standard than today, and you seem to want to judge these characters with today's standards, instead of losing yourself in their world.

You disregard the banners and pageantry, much like I did the first time through GoT, because like you I could never remember the 20 different knights names in the tourney or their banners. But in that long listing paragraph is the introduction to so many of our sub-plots for the next four novels, which Martin does a great job of interweaving with the Starks and Lannisters (two of which you will love wholeheartedly before book 5 and one you will continue to loathe).

The recent history of Westeros is not slapped across your face most of the time and in many cases, you must decipher from the different perspectives what is reality and propaganda. The great mystery although is not what did happen a generation ago, but what could have happened and how close these wars, weddings, rivalries, and ultimately every characters pending doom could have been avoided because of one simple fart. After a couple thousand pages you see how the factions used to work together and how they fit together today. Those banners help identify families and this helps illuminate the complex weave Martin has created for us.

I agree that his series stalls in book 4 and 5, but if you give book 2 and 3 a chance, you will find that the plot thickens and events spin wildly out of control for everyone. The meek inherit the thrones, and the strong are cast down by magic, treachery, and pure stupidity at times. The evil and good alike are slain by the thousands, and the war of the five kings erodes everyone into a husk of their beginning selves as we met them in GoT. All while the true enemy gains strength and WINTER IS COMING!
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A Game of Thrones by George R. R. Martin - 13/08/2012 10:48:37 PM 9059 Views
Fascinating. - 13/08/2012 11:40:22 PM 2454 Views
Re: Fascinating. - 14/08/2012 06:23:13 AM 2259 Views
Mainly the names. - 17/08/2012 12:07:21 AM 2195 Views
Regarding Daenerys as Henry Tudor - 14/08/2012 06:36:37 AM 2332 Views
Not really. - 14/08/2012 07:01:36 PM 2428 Views
Shocking - 15/08/2012 06:49:18 AM 2286 Views
On the Rape issue.... - 14/08/2012 01:19:35 AM 2304 Views
Re: On the Rape issue.... - 14/08/2012 02:02:42 AM 2172 Views
Firstly, Camilla is a she. Secondly, though I won't speak for her, regarding the rape in the novels, - 14/08/2012 02:23:19 AM 2323 Views
When does he use rape in an erotic manner? - 14/08/2012 05:48:59 AM 2176 Views
like all the time. - 14/09/2012 04:45:42 PM 2266 Views
Camilla is indeed a she. - 14/08/2012 06:18:58 AM 2223 Views
Re: Camilla is indeed a she. - 14/08/2012 04:37:17 PM 2218 Views
Re: Camilla is indeed a she. - 15/08/2012 06:39:31 AM 2316 Views
I for one never saw any of the rapes as erotic - 21/08/2012 05:04:11 PM 2457 Views
Re: On the Rape issue.... - 14/08/2012 06:17:55 AM 2158 Views
House Banners/Sigils - 21/08/2012 04:56:07 PM 2225 Views
Re: A Game of Thrones by George R. R. Martin - 14/08/2012 02:08:59 AM 2111 Views
Re: A Game of Thrones by George R. R. Martin - 14/08/2012 06:25:11 AM 2222 Views
I think you misread one part - 14/08/2012 04:51:34 PM 2380 Views
Currently kicking myself - 15/08/2012 06:43:36 AM 2371 Views
Re: Currently kicking myself - 16/08/2012 10:11:01 AM 2203 Views
what a great review. you echo my thoughts quite a bit... - 15/08/2012 01:21:38 AM 2123 Views
Wait...why would you waste time reading this fluff series when it's out on TV? - 16/08/2012 12:10:32 AM 2279 Views
Trollolololololololllll *NM* - 16/08/2012 01:02:22 AM 1080 Views
Se noteboard. *NM* - 16/08/2012 06:29:39 AM 1110 Views
Game, set, and match *NM* - 18/08/2012 03:50:38 PM 1068 Views
I think the TV series handles the problematic Dany/Drogo relationship better - 17/08/2012 12:20:16 AM 2277 Views
I think it messed it up by showing forced intercourse without the verbal consent Drogo DID obtain - 17/08/2012 12:07:14 PM 2228 Views
I still find it difficult to read it as anything other than a coerced consent - 17/08/2012 01:08:15 PM 2083 Views
A perpetrator-less crime then. - 17/08/2012 07:26:26 PM 2219 Views
Exactly! I'm on board, Cannoli. - 18/08/2012 07:45:56 PM 2079 Views
You are missing the point. - 18/08/2012 11:11:33 PM 2189 Views
Re: You are missing the point. - 19/08/2012 01:25:30 PM 2247 Views
Re: You are missing the point. - 19/08/2012 01:40:11 PM 2207 Views
So, you're saying that Juliet was raped by Romeo??? - 21/08/2012 05:24:56 PM 2275 Views
The later books do add more context and change some of this - 19/08/2012 12:08:49 AM 2126 Views
Re: The later books do add more context and change some of this - 19/08/2012 07:27:59 AM 2141 Views
That makes sense - 19/08/2012 02:35:36 PM 1904 Views
Jesus Christ another fucking thread about rape and fantasy. - 19/08/2012 01:47:43 AM 1320 Views
Perhaps if reading other people's views makes you so angry, you should avoid reading them? *NM* - 19/08/2012 02:37:03 PM 1149 Views
High blood pressure can kill, I hear. *NM* - 19/08/2012 03:33:14 PM 1208 Views
Nonsense. - 19/08/2012 03:33:39 PM 1102 Views
Fixed it for you. - 19/08/2012 08:22:18 PM 1201 Views
Shake the sand out of your vagina bitch. *NM* - 20/08/2012 06:35:32 AM 1107 Views
Gosh, this is really turning into something fun. - 20/08/2012 07:15:01 AM 1258 Views
Huh. I just came to the odd realization... - 20/08/2012 08:29:56 PM 1200 Views
Don't lock it! - 21/08/2012 05:11:34 AM 1167 Views
Yes, I'm aware, or I might have locked it already. - 21/08/2012 06:17:29 PM 1036 Views
I'd ask that you do lock it. - 21/08/2012 10:00:48 PM 1106 Views
Fair enough. *NM* - 22/08/2012 06:26:04 PM 1024 Views
I may join you - 20/08/2012 10:14:50 PM 1181 Views
COME AT ME BRO *NM* - 21/08/2012 05:09:34 AM 1047 Views
The interesting part is... - 28/08/2012 01:39:49 AM 2053 Views
That is the best written and most insightful review of that book I have read - 01/09/2012 05:38:00 PM 2149 Views
i'm rereading the series now and yeah there is a LOT of rape - 14/09/2012 04:38:27 PM 2739 Views

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