We had a lunch yesterday with Gena, Balwer, Gwenhwyvar and some of the Sydney wotmaniacs. Others who had played in that group had noticed the changes and felt like you; however, they had found new people to play with. Of course, the Aussies are probably the most supportive (to each other) group, so it is different for you.
I read your report on that, it sounded enjoyable. It is always difficult though to meet new people when one has a natural reticience around people.
By the way, if I was to plan on a trip to Oz next year would I find the beer welcoming?