obviously not all women think that way, but you'd be surprised how many do, it has everything to do with insecurity and I know GUYS who think the same way
Congratulations. You got it in one. In my younger single days and earlier married days that was exactly how I thought. Brother. How much time did I waste on that. Now I don't worry about it. If it has to do with me he will tell me. If not then let the man have his private grief. He will let me know if he needs or wants my help.