The problem with that idea is, there are people who will be embarrassed to ask to be put on it, but will be hurt if they are not included.
Really, all you guys have to do is reply to the names you know There could be 5000 names on it, if you only know 25 it isn't anymore difficult than if the 25 were the only ones on the list.
Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile.
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Kory Joe