2)Do I have to tell him that I am insane? Or can this just be our little secret?
as I'm writing this there are 327 wotmaniacs online and your post has got 81 views, and that won't be all.
You're one of those people that think a good secret is kept by as many people as possible, aren't you?
I'll be more enthusiastic about encouraging thinking outside the box when there's evidence of any thinking going on inside it.
(Terry Pratchett)