For 19 years old the kid is brave I'll grant him that.
What the kid needs is to taken to a hooker and let her blow his ever loving mind. This kid apparently no social life, and will probably never have one. He needs to get out more and actually experince life. This type of single minded thinking actually represses any creative thought in general even in non-porn environments. Think about this for a second if everyone had a dress code to follow and thought the same way how boring would life be.
The Purtains in the 1600-1700's tried this approach and it failed. The whole idea is actually communistic.