... i mean... i guess one could choose to ignore his/her feelings... but i know i didn't just get up one day and say "i'm bored, what should I do today? Oh, I know. I think I'll be bi-sexual. That'd be fun!"
i don't know if its something you're born with or if its something that just develops. I don't know when exactly i started becoming attracted to women but i know i fought it for a long while (coming from a Christian household that is a big no-no)
so i guess i'd say that "being gay" is something thats naturally ocurring... whether genetics or environment i don't know... though the choice to embrace who you are in that case is a choice you have to make.
hope that helped
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