I am not gay but I feel I should add my thought... Many gays say that they were born like it and many say that they choose their lifestyle... I think that they make the choice since 98% of gays I've talked to say that and that they also say that other gays say that they were born that way in public but in private it is a different matter... wheeloftimefan
Seriously, I would really like to know as the vast majority of gay people think its something they are born with and the only ones who "choose" it are those who try to deny it in the first place.