Okay... now how many of you actually came in here because that's cute? How many?

I did.

1: Is it -really- that attractive/alluring to have a woman bat her lashes at you?

It is indeed.

1a: if so... why?

Its very coy, and I like that.

2:What flirting "techniques" actually work, and how effectively?

a: Flipping/showcasing of hair

That works, but only if im actually paying attention to her face.

b: Winking

Not really, this can be misconstrued.

c: Blowing kisses

Not subtle, but yes it works.

d: Small, subtle touches or brushes on the arm/hand/etc

This one is really nice, purrrrr.

e: Smiling

This is good too, makes me want to smile back.

f: Giggling/Laughing

Depends on how she laughs.

g: Swaying of hips

Usually I don't pick up on this.

h: Dropping of hanky or paper or books or whatever

Well of course I offer to help, but I would probably construe that she did this on accident.

i: Wiggle a beckoning finger (I'm running out of ideas, okay?)

Egh, doesn't work

j: Blushing

Only if she has a fair complexion and its noticeable

k: Revealing clothing

Doesn't work, at least for me. Im a product of the dichotomous sexual nature of America, on one hand, I am a extremely liberated person and am frank enough about matters of sexuality and tolerant, but on the other hand, my socially conservative heritage, combined with a few stints at an Evangelical Baptist Church in my youth lends me to revile such women as sullied. It depends, I might find it attractive, but on the otherhand I might think the girl was a pernicious slut who I, or both at the same time, I don't know. You see how horribly America mangles the sexuality of its children? I blame those damn Puritans.

l: "Ignoring" you, except a few brief glances

Id feel put off by this. I think she didn't like me or was giving me funny looks.

3: Does any of the above bug you when females do it?

None in particular

4: Can't think of any other questions... except... Okay, what flirting techniques work on you?

Generally grabbing my grotch and kissing works, subtlety is usually wasted on me.


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