So the question is - What was your life like before Wotmania?
I probably spent more time studying, more time reading (ironic that a site about books has made me read less. 
). I think I am now more open to other people's views. I know that without wotmania, I would not have gone to the US when I went overseas at the beginning of the year. And I had a fantastic time there, meeting a handful of wonderful wotmaniacs. 
Who would dare?
Wotmania helped me see that his drug abuse wasn't going to get better and that I was enabling him. It was also an escape from that drama. And a support group when I finally moved out with my baby to my mom's. 14 years later I'm in a healthy happy marriage 10 years strong with two boys. A teenager who knows everything and a four year old who does as well. I never have to think for my self again! Also I found my Grimbear lifelong partner boyfriend husband love machine! I'm definitely better for wotmania. So many wonderful people who enrich my life daily!!