I found wotmania a long time ago, but I really got "hooked" only in the Winter of 2001-2002. My problem was that I was working at a job where I had long intervals with nothing to do, which could be followed by 40 hours of straight work with no sleep time to break it up.
What kind of crazy job was that?
Wotmania helped me see that his drug abuse wasn't going to get better and that I was enabling him. It was also an escape from that drama. And a support group when I finally moved out with my baby to my mom's. 14 years later I'm in a healthy happy marriage 10 years strong with two boys. A teenager who knows everything and a four year old who does as well. I never have to think for my self again! Also I found my Grimbear lifelong partner boyfriend husband love machine! I'm definitely better for wotmania. So many wonderful people who enrich my life daily!!