I think marriage is more than a piece of paper. It is the formal vows you give to each other of your love, trust, etc of the other person.
Besides that, it is a legal thing. If you aren't actually married, you cannot receive health benefits from your spouse. You cannot receive government benefits.
Finally, once you start a family, I think a marriage gives the children an inner security. That is just my opinion though.
Amy
"Oatmeal and raisins, might as well be brown rice and broccoli. Maybe I should have a few more." ~ Tigr
By the way, I miss you too.~KB
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