Why, you are the best. That's what you are.
As for the issues behind your post, well, I'm in strong agreement with Kory. Fairness is a beautiful goal, and one that should be strived for at all costs. But, "fairness" must actually be fair for everyone involved for it to actually work.
So, don't worry about whether or not you fit into a particular label or group. You are intelligent, forward thinking and groovy. That's a great thing.
OCWIATJ Forever