and a few words of wisdom that may help you in your time of loss:
"Your lost friends are not dead, but gone before, advanced a stage or two upon that road which you must travel in the steps they trod."
--Aristophanes
Lord Culex al'SornumWise men speak because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.
The rule is perfect: In all matters of opinion our adversaries are insane.